New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244969 questions, 1084324 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

*enc57

United States  (Male   XML/RSS

Like what he writes?
... Add *enc57 to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *enc57 a private message

*enc57's Ratings
Excellent64%
Average21%
Poor14%

Did I really lose my virginity? I'm not sure

Q.   Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and just recently had sex for the first time. But it didn't hurt and I didn't bleed. Does this mean that I didn't lose my virginity? ...

A.   26 December 2010: the thing that hurts when you have sex the first time is your hymen. a small membrain in your ...you know, it doesnt do anything and because its so small and thin it breaks the first time you have sex or you do any strenuous activity. because it ... (read in full...)

My best friendship is dying!

Q.   Ok this isn’t a bf gf question it’s for my best friend who might as well be my sister. We have been the best of friends for about 5 months I think...I don’t know time fly’s when I’m with her. Hers the problem I feel like our friendship is slowly ...

A.   8 December 2010: i doubt that cause theres a age differeance and when we were 2 months into teh friendship i thought i loved her and she shot me down XD but its ok now.... (read in full...)

My best friendship is dying!

Q.   Ok this isn’t a bf gf question it’s for my best friend who might as well be my sister. We have been the best of friends for about 5 months I think...I don’t know time fly’s when I’m with her. Hers the problem I feel like our friendship is slowly ...

A.   6 December 2010: thanks guys im gona see if i can get the nerve up to do one of thease things. cause im trying to find the way thats the easyest or the one that will hurt the least amount. she gets charged a rediculous amount for texts so i might have forgotten ... (read in full...)

Everyone rejects the idea of us being together!

Q.   im 21 I love the most beautiful girl on the earth ...shes 20, shes my everything, i cant live without her, and everytime i see her , we cant talk nor look at each other or even say hi or hug, nothing, and it kills me to death, as if im being ...

A.   1 December 2010: Sounds like Romeo and Juliet who sucks because they both committed suicide but that isn’t the point. If you guys love each other most people can power through the people trying to stop you from loving because the two biggest things about humanity ... (read in full...)

Usually my crushes last 2 days, she surpassed the two day mark!

Q.   Ok I have known this girl for a little while and we have been best friends for six months(took a lont time to get bff #1). Everyone makes jokes about how where a couple or were siblings because we’re with each other so much. I never considered the ...

A.   29 November 2010: thanks guys, im still freaking out about it but im shoure something will happen eventually, thank you again... (read in full...)

Could this be a STD rash?

Q.   I have a small purple bruise lookin rash on my penis I'm worried it's an STD me and my gf r each others first should I be worried or is it nothing?...

A.   28 November 2010: It doesn’t sound bad but you should go to a doctor, strangers online are never better than a real doctor. Never ever trust its someone else’s first time they can lie or get there v-card surgically un ripped (re cherry). But seriously go to a ... (read in full...)

Jekyll when sober, Hyde when drunk. Which is his true side?

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend for around 8 months now and I really like him, ALOT. But when he gets drunk he is soooo mean to me for no reason and when sober he is the nicest person I have ever met.. so I guess I am wondering what side of him is the ...

A.   28 November 2010: Find a way to get him to drink less and you don’t have a problem. If he loves you more than alcohol he will do it. I’m not saying have him quit drinking just saying drink 4 beers instead of 8. Or when he wants to get drunk to stay away from you ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know how to stop being in love and just be friends with them

Q.   ok so i have been crazy in love with this girl for about 6 months now. iv told her about how i felt twice the first month and teh second but she doesnt like me that way. heres the kick in the teeth, we have ben best friends for 6 months and thats ...

A.   14 November 2010: thank you, that sounds like something i can work on. thanks again... (read in full...)

Why does my girlfriend not trust me?

Q.   I like this girl but I can’t seem to get to really know her. I have been with this girl for 5 months and getting any kind of personal information is like the most impossible thing I have ever done in my whole life. I just feel like I’ve told her ...

A.   7 November 2010: im not pushy and rude, she asks me tones of questions about my self btu teh second i ask her teh exact same question she suddenly diesnt wana answer, if someoen asked you a question and you answered woulndtn you want them to answer teh same question ... (read in full...)

Why does my girlfriend not trust me?

Q.   I like this girl but I can’t seem to get to really know her. I have been with this girl for 5 months and getting any kind of personal information is like the most impossible thing I have ever done in my whole life. I just feel like I’ve told her ...

A.   5 November 2010: Ok thank you for the advice, I always thought she was cooler than me but I’ll try that. I’m going to go try that I guess it makes sense even though I’m absolutely certain she is the cooler one. thank you again... (read in full...)

I trust her 100% and she trusts me 10%

Q.   I like this girl but I can’t seem to get to really know her. I have been with this girl for 5 months and getting any kind of personal information is like the most impossible thing I have ever done in my whole life. I just feel like I’ve told her ...

A.   5 November 2010: ok thanks its jsut that 5 months is the longest relationship iv had so im jsut freaking out about every detail because its all new to me, thank you for the advice... (read in full...)

How can you tell if a guy is interested in you?

Q.   What are ways to tell if a guy is interested in you? HELP PLEASE im so confused....

A.   3 November 2010: really depends on the guy, in general shy guys will never talk to you and look at you then when you look at them they will immediately look away. Guys with a lot of confidence will straight out ask you out. and anyone in between would probably ... (read in full...)

Is a 6 year age difference too much to date someone?

Q.   if theres a 6 year differance in between you and someone else would it be ok if you date them? this is just a random thought im not actually saying i wana date a 10year old, im just saying is a 6 year age differance too mutch? i have a friend and ...

A.   17 August 2010: so bacically what most of you are saying is in a relationship aslong as the number doesnt end in teen like 13 through 19 its only about love?... (read in full...)

Is virginity important and how old were you all, when you lost it?

Q.   when is the average age to lose your virginity becuase most people these days are losing it younger and put you in a position where you think of how far you went with a boy. How old was you when you lost your virginity? Is virginity important? i am ...

A.   14 July 2010: im 16 and i dont regret not ever having sex. and chances are i wont have it until i find the right girl. im not fat or ugly either and have had plenty of chances but i just never felt real love with any of them so why would i waist something so ... (read in full...)

*enc57's friends

These are mutual friends, so *enc57 has added them and they have added *enc57!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0937646000093082!