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writes:im 21 I love the most beautiful girl on the earth ...shes 20, shes my everything, i cant live without her, and everytime i see her , we cant talk nor look at each other or even say hi or hug, nothing, and it kills me to death, as if im being stabbed...i talk to her on the phone whenever we can, and it sux, because she cries because we cant do anything about it, and it hurts me that she suffers, bcz im causing this ... everyone else around us seems to reject the idea of us being together...for the most dumbest reason ever...were the same religion its just that shes armenian and im Lebanese, and the fact is that everyones hates this idea...especially her parents...our friends hate it too but dont say anything about it, and were just stuck,,,i can't look at another girl, bcz i dont see anyone but her, everyday i wake sleep eat im thinking bout her..and its killing that i can't be with her..its just unfair, and i don't want to let her go and she doesn't as well...i love her to death, i dont want to leave her ..i pray everynight that it works out somehow but its just doesn't...her thought is in my head all day long..i cant move forward not knowing whats going to happen.... i love her i love her i love her..shes my diamond forever and i dont want to loose her :(...what can i do???? Reply to this Question
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (1 December 2010):
You, sir, are 21 years old and she is 20! You're both way past adulthood. I know family is important, but if they're going to discriminate against certain relationships, especially between two loving people, then they need to be cut out of the equation until they can handle it and stop being so prejudice and immature!
I'm sure its not as easy as it sounds to just "be together" but you don't have to make it that hard... Who cares if the whole world rejects you, do what your heart feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): @janniepeg
dude this is not the same as a "black" person mixing with a "white" person. It sounds like an issue that might happen a lot to middle easterners. Some have a very different way of viewing things than americans so yea its alot more complex than you think.......noobs
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reader, benc57 +, writes (1 December 2010):
Sounds like Romeo and Juliet who sucks because they both committed suicide but that isn’t the point. If you guys love each other most people can power through the people trying to stop you from loving because the two biggest things about humanity is our endless ability to love and our ability to adapt to changes. Hatred has a breaking point, true love has never heard of a breaking point. but if that isn’t enough all I can think of is moving or somehow getting people to accept your love or just get them to *****ing deal with it and keep their opinions to themselves. But that’s where the advice ends sorry. You should probably re post this with more detail such as age, where you live, more examples of put downs, and just any other information that might be slightly related. People need to be able to get into your shoes and see from your total perspective, don’t be afraid to write so match its three pages long people will read it all and the more they have to read and learn about you and the details the better and more precise the advice can be. So just find a way to get everyone around you to deal with it because that’s all I can think of, you should defiantly re post this because what does a 17yr old know about true love all we got is hormones and lust. But good luck to you two and i honestly hope it works out.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 Just be together! You are obviously very much in love with this girl so just be together. It does not matter what anyone thinks or says. They have no right to judge whether or not this is relationship should be allowed to happen. I see nothing wrong with it, I see no problem. I only see the fear of being persecuted simply for being in love. So go and love her and let her love you, ignore the glares they give you, ignore the immature things they say. Tell your family that they will have to accept it and let her tell her family to do the same. They should be supporting her instead of inflicting fear of rejection upon her. Their behavior seems nothing short of shameful and despicable if they were able to somehow persuade you two to hide your emotions.
I hope that helps.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 She surely can't be that important if you can't ignore your family and friends' concerns. What's really the big deal? I see a lot of black and white couples everywhere. I see increasing number of blasian kids too. Build your own community who can accept you two.
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