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I want him to do something out of his life so we can move in together, but I'm afraid I will be nagging. What should I do?

Q.   hi i have been with my boyfriend for 7/half months. im 19 hes 24 and still lives with his parents, ive mentioned that we get our own flat but he puts it off, he doesnt even have a job. its seems that he wont help himself, he recently passed his ...

A.   12 December 2007: Well don't feel bad because you live at home with your mom. You are 19, fresh out of highschool...or in your last year(Europe?). Your b/f is 24 and thats the difference. You say he doesn't have a job either? How long has he been without a job? Are ... (read in full...)

She's talking like we are back but she acts different. What is going on??

Q.   Hey, Well my girl had broke up with me a few weeks ago, but I wrote her a heartfelt letter and drove 60 miles and put a tiny christmas tree on her car. She called back real happy the next day and the following day we went out to dinner and she said...

A.   12 December 2007: This is a tuff one. But I have been in that situation. Only I was in the other person's shoes and my boyfriend at the time was telling me how I never admitt fault. She most likely did speak out of anger. And maybe she is just really hard at ... (read in full...)

I hurt someone I love so much...what should I do??

Q.   My ex-girlfriend and i were broken up this summer. this was our 3rd break up in 1.5 yrs. We decided to get back together before the summer ended. When we officially got back together, i went to Europe just after and had kissed 2 girls in that ...

A.   12 December 2007: Ok, so you JUST kissed these two girls? In my opinion I think its been blown up way out of proportion. You and her where on again, off again, on again, off again. You have feelings too and the whole "off again on again" takes a toll on people. It ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants me to give up porn...and I would choose her but I refuse to pretend to be something I'm not.

Q.   Before anyone chips in and says that I don't understand this from the female perspective, please hear me out - because I have read posts, and heard views from the female side - and believe me they are pretty mixed. My girlfriend and I have been tog...

A.   12 December 2007: Hmm....Well I think your girlfriend is very confussed as to why you view porn, and is probly offended by it. She most likely feels threated. She might have heard all the negative things about porn.(i.e men who watch porn lose respect for women). I'd ... (read in full...)

Poll question: duration of the sexual act?

Q.   Hey i would like to know how long on average a man can have sex for, i just want to compare. can you give me one number or 2 instead of saying it varies please? Thank you so much xx...

A.   12 December 2007: At LEAST 10 minutes. And even so that is not enough. Although it is true that most long term relationships, it last a good 40minutes to an hour. Just an opinion, from another female.... (read in full...)

3 boyfriends in 4 months. I don't know if I love my boyfriends, or just having them. Please advise!

Q.   I don't know whats going on in my head. Ive had 3 boyfriends in 4 months. and i dont know if i love my boyfriends or if i love the idea of having a boyfriend. not to mention people at school have been calling me a tramp because i jump from guy to g...

A.   12 December 2007: First off, love takes time. Don't feel bad if you didn't fully love each one of your past boyfriends. Because its not something that turns off and on like a light switch. You shouldn't be so quick to call someone your boyfriend. You should just be ... (read in full...)

Worried I could be pregnant!

Q.   hi all, just wanted to ask a quick question. I started to take the pill last monday but my period hadnt finished yet, then i had sex with my bf on the tues and we used condoms, however its now a week later and im feeling bloated and im worried maybe ...

A.   12 December 2007: I doubt that you are pregnant. Especially if this is the first time you are on the pill. Your body is mostlikely trying to get uesd to it. But if you still wonder, take the test.... (read in full...)

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