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reader, angelblueeyes  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 Hi
I find that a funny question as everyone else has already said it will be different for every man, but if this helps my hubbys average is probably 1 hour to quite a few really it depends on the last time the deed was done!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): Personally I have lasted for differnet amount of times. It really varies. Sometimes we may want to have some quick sex and it is over quickly. Other times we may want to spend a long time in bed together and take things far more slowly. A guy can always slow down or stop if he feels like he wants to cum but to be honest you will probably only do this in a long term relationship because you wouldnt want a new gf to say why you stopping it can kill the moment. Aswell sometimes you can cum and want to have sex straight away afterwards and can. Other times you may just not want to and other times again you may want to but cant. Humans are not machines and we all vary. Can you as a woman say that you know how long it takes you to have an orgasm, no - because it will vary. If you are already very turned on it will be far quicker. Same for guys too.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (12 December 2007):
I'm also wondering if you are running a competition.I sometimes last 20-30 minutes and sometimes go the whole 1hour and forget time exists.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): It does vary by the guy and the mood that you are both in. The usual time that my ex and I would go for was ten mins; when we went 15 that was amazing. I have been with my current bf for 3 months and I can honestly say that we do it for at least an hour to an hour and a half everytime. We tried to have a quicky the other day and that was about 40 mins. I think it depends on how passionate and into it and eachother you are. My bf cums on average 3 times during every duration. But I would say that if your guy can last at least 20 mins thats good and then every now and then if he can go longer that would be great for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): What are you running a contest? It varies, even in one single man, he may last 15 minutes to an all night session...it really just depends.
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reader, ledouxrocs  +, writes (12 December 2007):
10min.
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reader, BellyDance  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 At LEAST 10 minutes. And even so that is not enough. Although it is true that most long term relationships, it last a good 40minutes to an hour. Just an opinion, from another female.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): i say that most guy will say 30min
but it a alot of work to have sex so i say it from 5min to 10 min long in time
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 well if you insist on numbers.
I think an average guy should be able to last 15-20 minutes. A wham bam thank you mam type of guy will probably only last a couple/three minutes ( you might want to avoid these ones :)
A guy with a long term parnter should be able to last up to an hour or so.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (11 December 2007):
 thats impossible to say without saying it varies. Cus it does. Sorry but there is no magical number that is good, bad or ecellent
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