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I feel like I am wasting my time!

Q.   when I met my boyfriend 11 months ago he said he was seperated and he and his wife had agreed to a divorce but as neither was in another relationship he did not start any divorce process. He claimed his wife left him, took the kids and lives in ...

A.   8 May 2009: You're welcome. I know that trusting someone after a "failed" marriage is not easy and I'd hate for your new guy to take advantage of that fact. You deserve happiness and honesty. Remember that!... (read in full...)

I want my ex gf back!

Q.   Alright so heres my story. Im 17 and Basically me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months on and off. Weve stopped talking twice before this relationship. The first time was for a week and the second time was for a month. But both for the ...

A.   8 May 2009: I think you have recieved good information here. I know that you were hoping for some secret reciepe to win back the girl of your dreams, but that just doesn't exsist. You need to just listen to what she has told you and if that means leaving her ... (read in full...)

I want my ex gf back!

Q.   Alright so heres my story. Im 17 and Basically me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months on and off. Weve stopped talking twice before this relationship. The first time was for a week and the second time was for a month. But both for the ...

A.   7 May 2009: Honestly honey, you're too young to be considering marriage. You've barely begun to experience life. I'm not trying to take anything away from your feelings but you need to slow down alittle. You kinda scared me and I'm not even your girlfriend! If ... (read in full...)

I feel like I am wasting my time!

Q.   when I met my boyfriend 11 months ago he said he was seperated and he and his wife had agreed to a divorce but as neither was in another relationship he did not start any divorce process. He claimed his wife left him, took the kids and lives in ...

A.   7 May 2009: I'd simply ask him where the relationship is heading and what he truly intends to do regarding his "seperation"... Maybe he just takes for granted that you accept his situation as is. Maybe he needs a little push?? I wouldn't be surprised however if ... (read in full...)

Is he really just friends with this girl?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. I fully trusted him... he could go where ever he wanted, do whatever, and talk to whoever because I believed he would always be true to me. Then he began to mention a girl he had been ...

A.   5 May 2009: Tell him that you were born with what we call "women's intuition" and that right now yours is screaming "UH-OH!!". Tell him you expect honesty and want an explanation. The bottom line is that you're entitled to know the truth, what you do when you ... (read in full...)

Scared to death..to tell my Mom, I am pregnant!

Q.   I turn 16 last month and five months ago, I was raped by a masked man. I was a virgin before it happened and then three months ago, I found out I'm pregnant. Nobody knows anything except for my best friend (he's a guy) and he tells me that if I ...

A.   4 May 2009: I am amazed that you have been able to hold all of this in for this long... and hold it all together. You need to talk to your mother. If for some reason you simply cannot (I won't pretend to assume that ALL mothers are decent and loving, maybe ... (read in full...)

How do I win back the best friend I loved?

Q.   My best friend and I used to be unseparable. We used to go out all the time and do everything together. There was something else though, we were both in love with each other but we dared not to say anything to each other. I only know that he was in ...

A.   29 April 2009: My heart actually aches for you on so many levels... the loss of a friend, a potential love and an unborn child. I sympathize with you and wish that I had some magical powers to bestow upon you so that you could go back in time and do it ... (read in full...)

Do I love him or am I crazy?

Q.   I feel totally nutts, Ok here goes sorry if this don’t make sense I’m confused, BIG STYLE. 9 years ago I met a guy I worked with and fell for in a big way we slept together a few times but he was going through a divorce and well I was a young. We...

A.   28 April 2009: I'm not going to lecture you about what you're doing to your husband because I am certain that you will get plenty from others. I will simply address your question- is this love? No. It's lust. It's infactuation. It's obsession. Obviously the two ... (read in full...)

Do married men stop thinking about the other woman?

Q.   When an affair ends, does the married man ever stop thinking about the other woman? Are they easily forgotten? Do men ever feel hurt when an affair ends or are they relieved thats it's over? Do they hide their emotions? Married men, please ...

A.   28 April 2009: I realize that your question was directed at Married men, which it would appear, none have bothered to step forward, but my opinion is that NO ONE is above human emotion. Of course there will be lingering feelings, however, the reality of where the ... (read in full...)

Most women want what they can't have, is that true?

Q.   Hi I'm a 28 Y.O man and I've noticed ( and a lot of men notice it too) when I'm in a relationship, some women wanna come and talk to you, even flirt, I see their eyes and they're stripping me naked. When I'm single, I have a hard time for them to...

A.   24 April 2009: It's all in the attitude. And I believe it's somewhat subconscious. There is a certain disposition that we carry when we are involved with someone. A sense of security and confidence and believe it or not, that creates an attractive aura. When we ... (read in full...)

She said she feels trapped..and now I'm worried about her making poor decisions!

Q.   Alright so I've been with my girlfriend for a year now. We live together and love each other. I have a 11 month old son and she doesn't have any kids. The problem is that I get him twice a week. Once during the week and once during the weekend. The ...

A.   24 April 2009: Well, I think she's being as honest with you as she can be reagrding how she feels... However, she's not being honest with herself if she wants to continually use you as an excuse for her "behavior"... be it intimate conversation with an ex, hanging ... (read in full...)

I think my fiance is cheating - but I need evidence so he cant deny it!

Q.   Hello. I have been in a 5 year relationship with my fiance. We have a home and children together. I am concerned about his behaviour and am 90% sure he is cheating on me. Here are the reasons: 1.He has a gym in his garage around the corner fro...

A.   9 April 2009: Dotty, You are obviously very observant to your fiances behavior. This is for two reasons: he's given you reason to mistrust him in the past and your instincts tell you to pay close attention. Now, you need to pay close attention to your inst... (read in full...)

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