I'm a bit hot headed and always take it out on her. How can I control this?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going strong for about a year and a half now. We've had a few arguements, but what couple hasn't? Last night though, we had a really big fight, during which we both said things we didn't mean, and hurt each other pretty ...
A. 9 March 2007: Are you by any chance, Spanish, Italian or Greek? Most mediteranean people have this very hot temper and stubborness. Its in our blood and very hard to control. We are very open people and like to confront the situation. Get it all out and half an ... (read in full...)
We've been fighting a lot lately, how can I stand up to her?
Q. hey, im a guy, 15 yrs old. me and my girlfriend have been fighting a lot lately. i mean, im trying to be helpful and trying to help, but she is stubborn and doesnt think things can be fixed. i do though. and i dont want to lose her. she is the love ...
A. 9 March 2007: When someone asks for some space, you give them that space. They need time to sort out things. Everyone has problems and sometimes we need time to sort them out in our head. I dont think she is running from you, maybe she has issues at home, but you ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfried suddenly want me to make the first moves before we can have sex?
Q. Why does my boyfried suddenly want me to make the first moves before we can have sex?...
A. 9 March 2007: Maybe he is a shy kind of guy. In the beginning of a relationship you dont see these kind of things but slowly you start noticing that youre making the moves all time.My man does not initate sex either, and when I ask him why, he says that its just ... (read in full...)
I have a tape recording of my husband having sex with the girl next door. Can I clear the noise up for clarity?
Q. I got a tape recording of my husband and the girl next door doing it, I show it him and he said he dose not no what it is there is a lot of white nosie in it I just want to know it there is anything I can do to clean it up there it a lot more on it ...
A. 9 March 2007: There are specialists you can go to where they can make the tape clearer. Look them up in the phone book, or go to your nearest video or computer shop, where they can direst you.... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart or move on?
Q. Today i almost got killed when i was at work. the only thing that i could think of was my ex girlfriend. we broke up 5 weeks ago and ive been thinking about trying to get back together with her before this happened. and now i dont know if i should ...
A. 9 March 2007: Your heart is a powerful thing but so is your mind. I dont know the reasons why youve broken up or who broke up with who, but you have to consider what went wrong in this relationship and why it went wrong. You have to be completely realistical ... (read in full...)
Things just seem to be going downhill for us now and I don't know how to fix it... any advice?
Q. To whom it may concern, I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year. I lived in another state for a while but eventually ended up moving in with him because the distance was becoming too much for us. Originally, when I lived elsewhere, we we...
A. 8 March 2007: Honey, men are from mars and women are from venus. Most boyfriends are romantic in the beginning, and after the honeymoon stage, your relationships change. They go into a different level, a deeper, more solid level. Thats when you have to start ... (read in full...)
Ever since my best friend moved, I've totally changed. I'm very unsettled by this. Help!
Q. Hi i'm a 15 year old girl. i am going to ask something but i dont think there is any correct answer to this. i would just like to know what everyone thinks and if anyone has ever been in this type of situatuion. My best friend of like 8 years...
A. 8 March 2007: There is nothing wrong with what you are going through. you are growing up and finding your own identity. Before when you had your friend, you lived in each others shadows, and now you are finally becoming your own person.
I wouldnt worry about wh... (read in full...)
Will my ex realise that the new guy in her life is a player and will hurt her?
Q. I have just come out of a relationship with a lovely girl. She said it was because of her job, but then she told me she was seeing someone else, who is known as a player (testified to me by many people). They had been friends for 6 months before ...
A. 8 March 2007: Some women choose to get into these relationships to get hurt. Unfortunately some people need to experience these things to grow spiritually and stronger. Believe me, she is very well aware of the risks. But she also believes that a player can be ... (read in full...)
I am always the rebound guy but I just want to be with her all the time.
Q. So there's this girl...She's amazing, ive known her for 2 years. I'm a freshmen we met in the begininng of 8th grade and we went out 3 times in 8th grade but we broke up everytime 1) too clingy,2)didnt feel rite 3) I blamed her about why we wer...
A. 8 March 2007: Sounds like you ruined it the first time round. I think she is protecting herself from you. Her friends are interfering and maybe she was so into you the first time round that you hurt her quite badly, her friends are prob trying to protect her too. ... (read in full...)
Was this all innocent last year or do you think he was messing around?
Q. going out with my b/f for almost 2 years. In the summer (which was like 6 months of going out) when looking through his phone(which he was there with me so it was ok) i saw a dialed call to a girl to which i said who is this. He tells me an old ...
A. 8 March 2007: does it really matter what happened last year? you cant break up with him if cheated on you last year. too much time has passed and if anything it looks like this girl has a crush on him, not the other way round. I think you should trust him, he ... (read in full...)
Is a ring on her finger, a new house and guilt, enough reason to ignore her true feelings for me?
Q. Thanks for your reply; but i have another query - I have asked this girl if she loves the man she is engaged to and she says "I care about him - i have feelings for him that won't just go away and while i have them i will not leave him." I ask her ...
A. 8 March 2007:
Um hello, shes engaged, not married. Shes either making excuses cos she doesnt want to hurt you or wants this guy for his house. You cant have your bread buttered on both sides. If she goes thru with the wedding, theres your sign, and move on, you ... (read in full...)
What might I be able to do to ease her mind and give her strength and what would you do in my shoes?
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship for just over a year now. It's been great and out of the year we've, all in all, managed to spend about 6 months together. We love each other very much and both get along great with each others families...
A. 8 March 2007: Honey, women are emotional creatures walking on this earth. We need security and intimacy. You cannot get that over the phone or in letters. It is obvious that you love each other and some women more than others need to express that love. Its like ... (read in full...)
Should I take my posters down or leave them up?
Q. i have around over 50 posters of different guys from bands many of the posters have the words the sexiest men in rock on them. i have loads of billy martin poster which my bf knows i used to have a thing for. my bf is coming round soon shoul...
A. 8 March 2007: Leave them on, theyre just pictures with famous guys on them. So what? Tame him to keep his jealousy at bay. If he says anything, shrug it off and tell him you dont get off on them.... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with her any more but don't know how to tell her. Please help.
Q. iv been with my gilrfriend for three and a half years now but iv fallen out of love with her she is always wanting to know where i am what im doing and who im with i told her about it before and she changed for a week then went back to her old way i ...
A. 8 March 2007: unfortunately you have no alternative but to be upfront and honest. Let her know that youre not inlove anymore and ure not happy. Dont prolong things, let her deal with the pain and move on to find someone who will give her all that love and find ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get closer to him?
Q. well most of you know about the boy thats on sniff and sleeps around that in falling in love with, its git worswe we used to ring eachother all the time and talk sometimes it go and meet him but we didnt do anything , so he got bored moved on to ...
A. 8 March 2007: Im sorry but youre wasting your time on someone who doesnt care. They are too preoccupied about their sniffing and couldnt care less about you. Move on, fall inlove with a real man.
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Can you tell me what the law says about a 15 year old female dating a 17 year old male?
Q. I need to settle an 'argument'!! Can you tell me what the law says about a 15 year old female dating a 17 year old male? Not asking about sexual side, just, does the law say that just dating is illegal for the ages mentioned?...
A. 8 March 2007: I dont think that this is possible to be illegal. You cant stop two people who are under age to go out dating. It only gets complicating if they sleep with one another and one is under legal age. There is nothing lawful against a 15yr old going out ... (read in full...)
Why do I always want things to happen quickly for me in life?
Q. Why do i want things to happen quickly for me in life? When i am relating with someone i want them to meet my demands quickly as well. What's wronG? ...
A. 8 March 2007: Patience, deary. I have the same problem as you.My poor boyfriend has to deal with so much. Hopefully as we grow older it subsides, im hoping... (read in full...)
His ex says she is pregnant but she is a compulsive lier!
Q. My boyfriend's ex girlfriend keeps calling us, stating shes pregnant with his baby, and wants him to go sign some papers to grant her full custody of the baby. This girl is supposly only 2 months pregnant, if she is pregnant at all.. She is a compul...
A. 8 March 2007: there is no need to stress until you know for sure that she is pregnant. Firstly she has to give him proof, a pregnancy test, or a blood test. He has the right to get one if he is the father. If she is and this is true, you have to really think ... (read in full...)
He treats her like a piece of meat...how do I stand up to him???
Q. To anyone, I am 15 to and 5,9 and 180 pounds brown hair hazel eyes and glasses.I go to church about 4 times a week.I belive in proper manners and to be polite to every one around you.In this day and age not many girls like a guy like me I dont dri...
A. 8 March 2007: Unfortunatley guys like this are the way they are because of their upbringing. I wouldnt confront him about it as he will not change for you, for her or for anyone else. Men like this learn the hard way after many years, and most of them dont ever ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me and I feel the trust will never come back into our relationship... Any advice here?
Q. My wife had an affair 2 years ago. She lied that she was going to her sister's house, but went to the hotel with someone else several times. We have since tried to reconcile, and are doing marriage counseling trying to save what's left of our ...
A. 7 March 2007: Unfortunatly trust is the one thing that keeps a relationship solid and healthy. well done in seeking counselling, i can see that you have done your share.Trust is very much a mental issue, if you really want to, you can block your mind and give ... (read in full...)
I have a vaginal infection and I can't tell my mom as she'd be horrified. Will it go away if I keep myself clean?
Q. Ok please would sum1 give me sum advice here. I wrote in with a few questions about my discharge and stuff. and i was told i mite hav an infection. i think i may have vaginitis! I read all the symptoms and everything and it seems so clear that i ...
A. 7 March 2007: Unfortunately there is no other way to get rid of an infection than by antibiotics. You should confide in your mom, let her know that you are still a virgin, but that you started to fool around. There is nothing to be embarrassed about, and you ... (read in full...)
He wants to be a little bit more adventurous in our sex life and has suggested a 3-some. If I don't go ahead with it I feel he will leave me. What can I do?
Q. please help, my boyfriend has recently suggested that we should experiment some more sexually and that a little bit of new things is good for a relationship. He want's me to have a 3some with him and his mate, i don't think a 3some is my thing but i ...
A. 7 March 2007: A threesome can be rather tricky. if either one of you are not comfortable with the idea, its is a no-no. Firstly you have to be very secure in the relationship, and secondly it has to be planned before its done so that there are no ... (read in full...)
I found business cards my boyfriend had taken from a couple of women so I confronted him. Was I wrong for the way I went about this?
Q. Last week on my way home, I had the car that me and my parents let my boyfriend borrow. I looked down and in the door I saw a couple business cards with phone numbers WRITTEN on them. I picked them up and they were women phone numbers. So, of course ...
A. 7 March 2007: i would have gotten a bit upset myself. in a relationship there are comprimises that need to be met. i dont think this should be a huge deal for him. he should respect your wishes.... (read in full...)
Having dreams that my bf is cheating on me! What does this mean?
Q. i keep having dreams that my boyfreinds cheating on me.....is that normal i wake up crying and can barely breathe i just want them to go away...does this mean hes really cheating on me?...
A. 7 March 2007: Most dreams have hidden meanings, they never show how things really are. I think its important to take note on how you feel and the background things you see. It could mean that you are feeling very insecure and these are just your fears arising. ... (read in full...)
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