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His girlfriends says I have to stop texting him

Q.   So I have this guy friend who I'm pretty close with and we always find ourselves texting each other hours at a time. The problem is his girlfriend texted me last week not asking me but telling me that I'm not allowed to text him... at all. Is s...

A.   4 December 2009: talk to your friend about what his girlfriend said, bet you anything that he'll take your side in all of this. Seriously, I have 4 brothers (kill me now!) and this kind of thing has come up in numerous conversations, and they have always taken the ... (read in full...)

What is the law?

Q.   Hey, Ok so here is my problem... Ok so I was just wondering what the law is on younger girls dating older guys... Because I am 15 going on 16 and might be dating a 29 year old very soon... I'm not questioning whether it's normal cuz I don't care I l...

A.   25 November 2009: The law is that no one under teh age of sixteen is allowed to engage in sexual acts and were you to do this now, this guy would go to jail if people were to find out. Although, since your living in America, it varies from state to state, check out ... (read in full...)

I am in love with a girl, but she has a boyfriend!

Q.   Hey I'm 16 years old and i'm Having Problems. I realy like this Girl i know and i Cant stop thinking about her. thing is she has a Boyfreind alrdy. I'm lost i'm not relay Used to being in love as i'm no ladies man shall we say I dont know wh...

A.   16 November 2009: ok then. nice to see a guy who admits he actually has feelings" first off, r u sure she has a bf? u sure it isnt just a friend she knows or a misinformed idiot telling u the wrong thing? if she does happen to have a bf, then ur in a bit of a pickl... (read in full...)

Ideas on how to take the 'roughness' futher.

Q.   So, I'm new here and this is my first question. First, thanks in advance for any advice that is given. Here goes, I'm 24. I'm very happily married with two gorgeous children. I always thought things were as close to perfect as my wife and I co...

A.   10 November 2009: you shud really just screw the whole role play skirting around the issue (pardon the pun lol) and literally 'take her'. seriously. no B.S, just one night after the kids are in bed and everything's quiet, call her upstairs in a quiet but deadly, ... (read in full...)

People make fun of me because I have only had 1 boyfriend!

Q.   dear cupid i am a female and i am 13 years old, people make fun of me because i have only had one boyfriend, we went out for 4 weeks and all we did was talk that was it! i don't know how to get myself out there and to gain the confidance to just ...

A.   12 October 2009: Hey there sweetie! I'm sixteen and don't worry, before the guy I'm currently going out with, I only had one bf which was when i was 13! it lasted a couple of months, and we didn't do anything else other than kiss. you shouldn't feel so self concsiou... (read in full...)

I need your opinions here. What does love feel like?

Q.   There appears to be two types of love. One is the love for a sibling or family member, and the romantic love between intimate partners. I myself am devoid of either. I never have (and probably never will) felt love for another due to my abnormal p...

A.   22 September 2009: Love is different to every person so you'll probably get a ton of different answers . . . but to me, love is when you can't go a day without thinking about someone. Love is when you wouldn't hesitate to jump in front of a bullet for the loved on... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and never been kissed. Help!

Q.   Well im 13 I havent got my first kiss. My boyfriend wants to and iIhevnt kissed someone yet because I dunno what to do. I know you close your eyes and go for it but im stuck. Do I give a peck on the lips before a snog or what and like when ya snog ...

A.   22 September 2009: Okay, slow down there kiddo! You're only thirteen, calm down! I got my first kiss when I was your age and to be honest, I don't remember what I was thinking really . . . What I do know is that my bf and I had that really cute little moment wh... (read in full...)

Confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time!

Q.   Hi, Basically a straight forward question. I'm confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time. I've heard it loads of times about 'breaking in' etc but still don't get it, is it messy like a mate of mine said years ago? what ...

A.   2 September 2009: It won't hurt you at all. Lucky guys . . . *scowls*... (read in full...)

Is underage sex something you agree with?! I want opinions please!

Q.   Ive decided to put myself out here after been severely infuriated by some 'adults' on this site who deem it appropriate for CHILDREN to be having sex from as young as 13! do you think its appropriate for a child of this age to be having sex?? they ...

A.   18 August 2009: No offense but this is kinda a pointless question but anyways... Underage is NOT RIGHT AT ALL. It's just...ugh. I know people say it's just an age but the age limit is there for a reason. And as much as I hate our government at the moment, ... (read in full...)

Am I scared of commitment or just not old enough for something serious?

Q.   I'm a fifteen year old girl, going into year 11 at high school. Most of my friends are in a 'serious relationship' or have been in one. I've had guys interested in me before, but I've never been compelled to start a proper relationship with any of ...

A.   18 August 2009: Wow, this is freaky! I asked the exact same question a couple of days ago! I'm 17 sweetie and you shud really take rhythmandblues2 advice into account. I understand how ur feelin, all my mates hav relationships and my longest one was 4 months a... (read in full...)

Confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time!

Q.   Hi, Basically a straight forward question. I'm confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time. I've heard it loads of times about 'breaking in' etc but still don't get it, is it messy like a mate of mine said years ago? what ...

A.   17 August 2009: What happens is there is a small kind of skin barrier called a hymen which a penis breaks which releases a small amount of blood, nothing too bad just be careful of the colour sheets you use! The girl will experience some discomfort, different for ... (read in full...)

Confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time!

Q.   Hi, Basically a straight forward question. I'm confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time. I've heard it loads of times about 'breaking in' etc but still don't get it, is it messy like a mate of mine said years ago? what ...

A.   17 August 2009: What happens is there is a small kind of skin barrier called a hymen which a penis breaks which releases a small amount of blood, nothing too bad just be careful of the colour sheets you use! The girl will experience some discomfort, different for ... (read in full...)

What's the big deal about letting a man ejaculate in a woman's mouth?

Q.   Why is it that alot of people have a problem with the question of a woman giving oral sex and letting a man ejaculate in her mouth or her swallowing? I ask it and some feel the need to humiliate or belittle or call me a jerk or use the word "de...

A.   16 August 2009: Look, I can safely say no girl I've met likes to swallow cum; its feels like slime and tastes revolting so would you like to try it? People say its degrading probably because women have only just been considered equals to men (well, in places they... (read in full...)

I'm 13, I want this 20-year-old to like me, is this OK??

Q.   So im 13 going to be 14 and theres this guy that i like but hes 20 and he always come over or we always text my uncle knows that i like him and he says im not supposed to but i seriously like this dude and we he always listens to my problems and ...

A.   16 August 2009: In the adult world a 7 year agae gap (or 6 and a bit by the sounds of it) doesn't sound too bad. Some celeb couples are 11 years difference, but when you're a kid.. No. Just no. You can like from afar but DO NOT FLIRT. Seriously, if this led up t... (read in full...)

I have decided an abortion is the right thing for me, but I'm worried what my boyfriend's family will do when they find out!

Q.   I found out I was pregnant about two weeks ago. I am now about seven weeks pregnant. During these two weeks I have been forced to face some tough desicions. I am fifteen and my boyfriend is sixteen. At first my boyfriend was supportive, but ...

A.   16 August 2009: YOU are the mother and it is ALWAYS the mother's preogative in these situations. In my opinion, judging by the facts that your ex BF is a drug addict and has no job, he SHOULD NOT have a kid at all and he and his family have no right to demand t... (read in full...)

Will I still pass as a virgin when I get married even though I've had sex 3 times?

Q.   had sex 3 times not planing on having sex for 2-3 years will i still pass off as a virgin when i get married? (all 3 times bled)...

A.   15 August 2009: No mate. Just no. You had sex, ergo you are not a virgin. But if what you are planning is abstaining from sex until you find another guy and trying to pass yourself off as a virgin...it'll probably work seeing as you'll be gagging for it and the s... (read in full...)

I want a baby at 13

Q.   the thing is i am 13 (14 on october the 26th) and i want a baby so much i cannot explain my feelings i know i am ready i have tryed to put it off by babysitting but that makes my feelings stronger i have looked it up on the internet and told my mum ...

A.   15 August 2009: Oh my God, the number of times I have heard this story! First and foremost, YOU SHOULD NOT BE HAVING SEX. You are underage and he is not. He can be charged with statuatory rape but after you're 14 I think it is a misdemeanor... Anyway, for fr... (read in full...)

I'm really falling for my friend with benefits!

Q.   I'm 14 and he's 15. We're friends with benefits! It started about a year ago with just fingering, then oral, then vaginal sex in all different positions and then anal. Now we just do whatever whenever. I think I'm falling for him, he's so lovely ...

A.   15 August 2009: Okay, first off I'll start with the boring bits... YOU ARE UNDERAGE AND SO IS HE. He couldn't be done for statuatory rape since he is underage too so it would be lowered to a misdemeanor...have a look here, it's quite interseting if you want fut... (read in full...)

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