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Never even a first kiss at 21 -- how lame is that?

Q.   Dear Anybody who can help me: I am a female. I am 21. And I have never gone on a date... Or had my first kiss. How lame am I? I must seriously suck at life. And it sucks more when youre family is constantly asking.. "Why dont you have a boyfriend...

A.   22 April 2011: I have a friend who is 24 and she has never had a date or a first kiss. I sometimes wonder how she has never managed to have a date or find someone. But i think it is all down to confidence. When she meets new people she becomes very defensive and ... (read in full...)

He became controlling. Pinned me down. Do I get back with him, or move on?

Q.   i was with my bf for 8 months. I'm 17, he's 18. It was a good relationship at first. He was a great laugh, made me smile, took me places. It was great. 6 months into the relationship however, he changed. He got controlling, aggressive, overprot...

A.   22 April 2011: i'm going to keep this short and simple....move on and forget him. It's not worth it if he is aggresive and controlling. Don't be his puppet! ... (read in full...)

I just can't accept the fact that she will spend her life with a person who does not match up with her looks!

Q.   Dear Agony aunts, My sister recently got engaged to a guy that i just saw once before. At the engagement party i found him to be really unattractive and short for my sister. My sister is very beautiful and i felt like they looked like beauty and t...

A.   22 April 2011: hmm maybe you should think about your "beauty and the beast" comment. Just because you don't find him attractive, does not mean that your sister doesn't. She obviously loves him dearly and he makes her happy. What's wrong with that? ... (read in full...)

Is squirting fake?

Q.   Hi guys!! Do women really squirt?? i read many articles stating that it is fake?...

A.   10 March 2011: Men watch too much porn! that's all i'm going to say on the matter. ... (read in full...)

I'm living in a virtual world and I'm depressed...

Q.   hey everyone . im in a long distance relationship with my gf that i ve never met yet ! we met online a couple of years ago and we really got along ! we talk a lot and i really do love her like crazy and i guess she does to !! anyway my problem is i ...

A.   10 March 2011: I'm sorry to say this but you can't be having a real relationship with someone who you have never met. You need to break away from this person and go out and meet real people. You will meet someone special and realise what you have been missing all ... (read in full...)

Is it impossible to think I might be able to marry a virgin or at least a very inexperienced girl?

Q.   Is marrying a non promiscuous girl a rarity in todays world. I am a virgin man looking to marry a virgin or someone with very little sexual experiences. Is there a possibility that this may happen or should I not care about this....

A.   6 March 2011: I personally think it will become harder for you as you get older to find a virgin lady or inexperienced lady. But if you meet somone who you end up falling for will it really matter if she has had sex before? If you are worried about not knowing as ... (read in full...)

If a guy is using you, would he actually add you on facebook?

Q.   Ok,if this helps,we're both 23 and he's a uni student.I'm not sure it will but hey...Anyway,my question is if a guy is using you would he actually add you on facebook-I mean,what if his other girls are on his facebok too and I contacted one of ...

A.   6 March 2011: from experience facebook does nothing but cause problems. However just because he has added you on facebook does not mean that you are the only girl he may be seeing. The only way to make what you official is to actually talk about what you want, if ... (read in full...)

What do you do when a guy only wants you for sex?

Q.   hi this is my first time on here, what do you do when a guy only wants you for sex, and leads you on and plays games with your head. idk i think there should be an explanation for this, but im not sure any ideas or opinions???...

A.   24 February 2011: if you are not happy with having a no strings attatched fling with this guy then honey move on! there are plenty more fish in the sea. So don;t waste your time on him. I've been there myself and you wish and wish for him to want you as his gf, ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend says she can't perform oral sex because she has a sore throat! For 12 months???

Q.   Hi - I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 yrs. However, during foreplay (or anytime) she will not perform oral sex on me. She has done on a handful of occasions in the past, and I perform oral sex on her regularly because she enjoys it, just ...

A.   24 February 2011: it's obvious. The girl just does not like giving oral sex. It's not for everyone. When i first gave a guy head i didn't enjoy it at all and said to myself never again, but then with the next boyfriend i really started to enjoy it and liked se... (read in full...)

Why can't my bf give me an orgasm?

Q.   Hey aunts and uncles, I've been with my bf for almost a year now. He has not been able to make me have an orgasm. He expressed it to me that he feels so sad that he can't do that. I've made him cum quite often, but sometimes he used his hand to...

A.   24 February 2011: Sometimes i find it hard to orgasm through penetrative sex, so i always guide his hand and tell him what i like. Remember men will never learn about how to make a woman tick unless you give them a little fun lesson. Get him to put his hand on your... (read in full...)

Is it bad to be scared about 1st time sex?

Q.   Ohkkay im 16 and my boyfriend wants meh too have sex. I have to say i wanna too buhh he will be my first and im really scared too? Is that bad?...

A.   24 February 2011: you know when i think back to when i was younger and when i lost my virginity, i really wish there was someone who could of told me what to expect, rather then just USE A CONDOM talk. So yeah it is completely normal to feel scared and abit anxi... (read in full...)

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