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Should I continue to push the subject until she deals with the problem?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. Everything has been going smoothly until as of late. First, her parents, even after years, still invite her ex over to their house. When I say how much this bothers me, they don't care. They...
A. 2 December 2009: ur in a very similar situation to me, my GF is still speaking to her ex, keeps us 2 at a distance, she says she'll never get back with him because she wont trust him.
i hope that what she says is true, and will probably show in time, it does mak... (read in full...)
Why aren't you girls sexually protecting yourselves?
Q. This isn't directed to any asker in particular, but I am becoming increasingly concerned, and unfortantely, though I try to withold judgment, I do experience anger, in both my personal life and with askers on the site, who are both aware of ...
A. 25 November 2009: so far most girls iv met dont want to go on the pill or use any protection from their side because
they want to get pregnant, like annon_female reader says, they think they'll get the man to stay if they have their child, almost worked with me,... (read in full...)
Help! My friends and family are taking advantage of my skills. How do I say no and not offend anyone?
Q. Afternoon all. I recently qualified as a hairdresser a few months ago and since then i have been at everyones beck and call to do their hair. For example my family just take advantage and say "i need my hair cut this week" and expect me to j...
A. 9 November 2009: you invested time and effort in getting this qualifacation, do you charge them for your styiling and hair-cuts? also like the others said, start making appointments so that u can fit it in around your own time.... (read in full...)
Will committing incest emotionally scar my brother?
Q. Last night my brother and I (I'm a male) got pretty drunk just hanging out. We both started watching some porn, and discussing things, and, well....we ended up partially having sex. We were both consenting adults, although once we realized what was ...
A. 4 November 2009: lots of incest on the books this month.
you guys where watching porn, ur still young, probably still exploring sex on the whole so you could chalk it up to drunken stupidity. i doubt he will forever be scared by it though. give him his space to... (read in full...)
I'm trapped in a marriage with a husband who prefers masturbation over sex!
Q. We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before the wedding. For me the bigg...
A. 4 November 2009: start spending more time out of the house and get some time appart. be with friends etc. also if your friends where any good they would tell you straight what they think, i dont beleive there is any harm in telling them what sort of trouble you are ... (read in full...)
My good friend wants to see my penis. Should I show her?
Q. i have a realy good friend and she ask me to show her my penis i dont know if should show her but at the same time i dont know why she want to see it can someone help me with this...
A. 4 November 2009: simply ask her why she would want to see it, what are the circumstances surrounding the question? are you flirting heavily or what? if you are unsure dont do it.
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She thinks her ex is innocent and I've had enough!
Q. Heya, I dont really want to be in this position, but: I am in two minds about my GF speaking to her ex, I've never liked it, and its been hard work for me to let them talk and see each other, they broke up just under a year ago, she says she mis...
A. 4 November 2009: hi, thanks for the advice, I have decided to put up with it, I love her very much. She is starting to see what a jerk her ex is being, but she is still making plenty of weak excuses for him. hopefully she will push him away and keep him as just an ... (read in full...)
Has this man got narcissistic traits?
Q. Please i really need some help here to understand this man. I'm beginning to think he has Narcissistic traits but i'm not sure. i have been in a relationship with him for 8yrs,the trouble is he never says I love you or shows a lot of affectio...
A. 26 October 2009: he is a drama queen, and stuck up his own bum.
i would say leave him aswell, hes given you a decent oppertunity to stop contacting him...maybe in a few weeks he will text you to say he misses you, just ignore it because its only trying to get you ... (read in full...)
He hit rock bottom after we split up and we are meeting again for the first time this Sunday. How do I play it?
Q. hi i split with my ex 10 months ago, after a passionate intense 6 months relationship, we had moved in together, i realised he had a serious alcohol problem, i know a lot about that issue, he had stolen money off me before, we were sharing money but ...
A. 26 October 2009: to keep it friends, try and keep ur distance, do not open up to him completely, thats mistake #1 mistake #2 is how you talk to him, if he has any intention of getting back to you, wich the way you worded things, sounds like he does. if you say... (read in full...)
I just want ONE night with him, I think that's all it would take to bring us closer then it could be the start of something new!
Q. There's a guy i've known for quite some time now and when we're alone i feel this 'connection' between us. We both become quite shy and although the eye contact is only brief, it is filled with such tension. Most of the time i avoid looking at him ...
A. 26 October 2009: Hi there, you make sense in a way, but i dont really condone getting drunk, true they say a drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts, but if you want a relationship with him based on friendship getting drunk or tipsy is not the way. You shoul... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm ready to settle down yet
Q. I’m 21 and my boyfriend is 24, we met online and have been together for about 4 months now... He’s my first real relationship; all my other experiences have been disastrous one offs and this is the first time I’ve actually been on actual dates wit...
A. 21 October 2009: if he loves you he should understnad that you are a little wary of the idea of moving in with him, if its not what you want to do, tell him so, but dont give him false hope.
at the end of the day you should put number 1 first and move in with him... (read in full...)
My partner has been sending sexy emails to women, is he having an affair or not?
Q. I'm 25, and my boyfriend's 24, we met at a gay men's football club, and have been together for 18 months now. We moved in together in March, he proposed to me and we started planning for our civil partnership, and life was good up until last Wedne...
A. 21 October 2009: personally i would see this as cheating, why flirt when you are already in a commited relationship and supposed to be in love with someone?
for me to accept what has been said to these women or anyone while inside a relationship already, there wo... (read in full...)
Ex is being mean to our friends and now to me too!
Q. Hey everyone. I really appreciate any thooughts or opinions anyone can give me on this problem. My boyfriend broke up with me during the summer and I found it really really hard. A lot of the time it looked like we were going to get back together ...
A. 21 October 2009: i think he just wants to cut ties with you to get over your relationship within himself, and he shuts himself away to deal with his problems. give him a couple of weeks or a month, if the behaviour continues then try and be a friend to him and ask ... (read in full...)
Ex having sex with new b/f and I can't stop thinking about it!
Q. I've already had a question regarding the break up of me and my girlfriend of 3 years. I now have a problem i'm dealing with. We've been apart for a week and 2 days now. 2 days ago, she started dating this guy. I accept that, but I continue to keep ...
A. 21 October 2009: honestly, iv been through this kind of thing before, its not nice. thing is though you gotta think why you guys broke up, have you got all your answers? you need to stop asking her about this guy, it will tell her you are jealous if you carry on ... (read in full...)
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