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writes:Hi I am a women in my late thirties with two young children, I have been married for twelve years, during this time my husband has ended our relationship twice, once as a trial separation, then for good. This was a very difficult time for me, but eventually I got stronger and even started to casually date a male work friend. Once my husband found out, he wanted to try again, which I did, but struggled to stop thinking about this other man, as he made me so happy, my husband is now attending therapy and really trying to get help with anger issues etc. I am a mess right now as I find it hard to focus on my husband and find myself thinking of this other man all the time, I have tried to not see him but I still miss him, please help as I am falling apart. Reply to this Question
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reader, dollface1  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Hi
Firstly if you don't love him and don't wanna be with him don't. stop lieing to yourself! be happy don't let anything stand in the way of your happiness! this is your husbands fault he ended it, so if its not working for you. just end it, just as he did.
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reader, amyxavier  +, writes (31 January 2011):
i think you need to look at your relationship deeply you say your husband broke it off with you twice,but only decided to come back when he found out you were moving on and dating again . he was jelouse hes a loser you need to do what you really want if its with this other man then so be it your husband had his chance
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