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He swears he has no feelings for me but then he says "I luv you"

Q.   PLEASE TRY TO READ THE WHOLE STORY. I KNOW ITS BORING BUT PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE:( here’s a guy and we are together since 2.5 yrz. our relationship was just fine before the last few months that we started to argue and quarrel A LOT ne...

A.   28 July 2009: a guy did that to me for three years lol.um he was playing me but every case is different maybe? good luck x... (read in full...)

He likes me, he likes me not. He likes me, he likes me not...?

Q.   I know i have put this up a few times but here goes. I have been in love with a guy for about 9/10 months now and i think he like me back. He always starts conversations with me (on MSN and in person), always teases me, gives me loadz of eye ...

A.   16 July 2009: i had a similiar thing and its hard to say and comment, so. i think he likes you but be careful, a guy did that to me and he did like me but it got messy. kiss him. and tell the best mate to keep out. else it gets worse. x... (read in full...)

He hurt me so I wouldn't go after him

Q.   hey, i really need help and asap becuase its for this wednesday. theres this guy. and he liked me alot. and i lvoed him. and he left he hurt me so i wouldnt go after him. and he did it so i didnt know that, i havent been the same since he left me,...

A.   14 July 2009: but he knew i loved him when he left. but it was ''too hard''... (read in full...)

Having trouble choosing between the two girls that like me...Help!

Q.   I am just an everage guy but recently I have had these two girls come on to me and i like them both. One has messed me around a little bit but i like her more, but the other girl genuinely cares about me! I have no idea who to choose. Please help.....

A.   13 July 2009: go for the one you like the most. the one who hasnt hurt you may at one point anyway.... (read in full...)

I left my wife but now is willing to start over...should I?

Q.   I have had an affair which lasted a total of 3 months we had sex 4 times . I left my wife before any sex took place but its the same i know ! we have two young children who i love they are everything to me i felt i had no choice but to leave and ...

A.   29 June 2009: i understand what you mean and why you sought to have an affair but you have to understand we cannot always use the excuse we all make mistakes. you should only ever go back to your wife if you love her because marriage is about that and love will... (read in full...)

Hey friend lied to me and nnow I am in trouble with my gf!

Q.   i dated this girl for 4 years and after we broke up we didnt talk for a week or two. well i went to her collage graduation and things went well the next day was her birthday and i had lunch with her at my apartment... while we were eating luch she ...

A.   29 June 2009: if i were you, say that you never stopped loving her and the thought of her with another person cut you so deep it led you to say things you didn't mean and you behaved rashly and it meant nothing. that your sorry, that you love her more than ... (read in full...)

I forget about b/f when his uncle is around!

Q.   Well i've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. Everything between us is great all the time, except when his uncle is there. His uncle is 24, i'm 14, and my boyfriend is 15. Before my boyfriend and i got together, I had a really b...

A.   16 May 2009: keep staying away. i know it might be hard because you think hes hot but seriously his uncle is like a peadophile and its wrong. and if you did truly love your boyfriend i dont think you would forget him entirely try and focus on yur boyfriend when ... (read in full...)

What't he best way to get over someone you really loved?

Q.   Dear cupid, Me and my boyfriend broke up almost 2 months ago. No matter what I do I can't get over him. I really loved him and now I have no idea what to do. How do I get over someone that I really loved?...

A.   12 April 2009: so basically to wrap it all up im going through the same thing and after reading all of this well everyone does love and loose time is the only healer we all deal differently believe you can do it and if its true love you;ll be together one d... (read in full...)

How can I give up on my dream of marriage and a family, and find happiness and fulfillment in singledom?

Q.   Hello, this may seem as a strange question, but I'm giving up on relationships. Forever. The problem is I always had this fantasy of getting married and having children, but I think it'd be too difficult for me to mantain relationships. I...

A.   9 December 2008: okay sweetie i say this with love THAT GUY IS A PRICK! yet i understand your need to please and to be good enough.i hate my nose my mum hates her gouges my sister hates her big feet and my friends are always saying how fat they are! we all wi... (read in full...)

He tld me to be quiet because he had issues to sort out - but now he's going to say something and I'm not sure what it's about or what to do.

Q.   it's hard to how to explain what i need to, theres this guy and basically i don't know if he likes me. he told me something only him and his parents know not even his best friends know so why me? and he cancelled seeing his brother in amsterdam to ...

A.   19 July 2008: i do i mean ive loved him for 3 years i dont know though i think he will say he likes me but doesent want realationshipp i just dont know...i love him im not sure what to do ... (read in full...)

Is it friendship, or something deeper?

Q.   hey, it's hard to how to explain what i need to, theres this guy and basically i don't know if he likes me. he told me something only him and his parents know not even his best friends know so why me? and he cancelled seeing his brother in amste...

A.   9 July 2008: do i like him? well i love him... and something needs to happen because my heart is getting broken by him lots kinda the issues were from a guy friend! not a girl :) whoop just unsure whether he likes me thankyou for your help so fa... (read in full...)

I need to find a birthday present. He loves God, music, lSU, the Dallas Cowboys and Jessica Simpson...

Q.   Dear Cupid, My crush/best guy friend has a birthday coming up, and I need some ideas as to what I should get him. He's turning eighteen, if that helps any. As for his likes, he's VERY into music (he sings and plays the guitar), and God is absol...

A.   23 June 2008: :) In his card you could write, 'God is love, and I love you' :) ... (read in full...)

I have an extravagent crush on my teacher! Is he just playing me?

Q.   Okay, you must get MANY of these but please just listen and help. I'm 17 and have the most extravagent crush on my teacher ever imaginable. I can't go a day without thinking about him and I genuinely believe this is way past infatuation. ...

A.   23 June 2008: Judging by the leg comment, no he doesn't see you as a little girl, least i hope not. :P Everyone has had a crush on their teacher at one point, you may think this is love but i presume it's more of an infatuation. Remember there arr laws ab... (read in full...)

Do these opposites attract? Or am I just dreaming?

Q.   its my birthday in 1 week and 6 days and i invited th guy im in love with. i still duno if he loves me back he doesent tell me fa!! he told his friend he likes me sometimes just not all the time part of me understands this because im the only one ...

A.   23 June 2008: my friends sy sme ty 4 advice =) ... (read in full...)

My BF makes it sound that every problem we have is my fault. How to make him understand how I am feeling without him threatening to break up or blaming me?

Q.   Okay this may be a long post but I need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and have put so much into our relationship and trying to make things work here lately but I feel like its a waste of emotion and time. My boyfriend ...

A.   22 June 2008: i sorta agree with what your saying but these people set out to help you and if you dont want there opionion do not ask for it... (read in full...)

So confused! Does he like me?

Q.   its my birthday in 1 week and 6 days and i invited th guy im in love with. i still duno if he loves me back he doesent tell me fa!! he told his friend he likes me sometimes just not all the time part of me understands this because im the only one ...

A.   22 June 2008: i dunoo tbh i mean i have been 4 3 years so i guess it could b a set thing?... (read in full...)

My BF makes it sound that every problem we have is my fault. How to make him understand how I am feeling without him threatening to break up or blaming me?

Q.   Okay this may be a long post but I need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and have put so much into our relationship and trying to make things work here lately but I feel like its a waste of emotion and time. My boyfriend ...

A.   22 June 2008: grr..!! what is it with guys saying that its him not you!! tell him to sort himself out! girl you can do better if this guys is doing all that! xxx... (read in full...)

I kissed my best friend. Should I leave my boyfriend?

Q.   I am currently in a relationship with a man who I like greatly.However on a recent night out with work, I got really close with my best friend from work and ended up kissing him. Although I did not plan this, we were both sober and I have been ...

A.   22 June 2008: make sure your bestfriend meant it more than a casual kiss! you dont want to throw it all away for nothing!!! think about what you really want you dont want to do anything thing you are going to regret in the long run, only you know whats the best ... (read in full...)

He's made the decision to move on without me. I don't know if I need any closure... or I just want to tell him I miss him.

Q.   Hi, those who have followed me will know. So what happens is, I had a bf of 9 months. We were happy together. However, he decided to move to another city without really considering me. After some discussion, we realized that I want to get married ...

A.   22 June 2008: tricky...mention that you do miss him but i think even if you do it wont present the outcome we are hoping for... tell him and see what he says but im sure someone out there would be grateful and proud to have a wife like you on his arm. get out and ... (read in full...)

I have never been one for casual sex so I dismissed his innuendos. Would he have liked me more if I slept with him?

Q.   I am middle aged and recently returned from a cruise I met a man and spent a lot fo time with him as friends. He did put innuendoes about having sex and I did want to but I have never been one for casual sex and when we went on the landing ...

A.   22 June 2008: a guy who would only like you for sex whether you like him or not is wrong, im sure many men would be just satisfied with your company and i personally belive you did the right thing, if you did have sex with him it wouldnt be casual for you, but it ... (read in full...)

I've loved him for 3 years!! Does he like me??

Q.   hey i've been in love with a guy for 3 years and last year we got together when we were alone i asked him if he did like me and he said yeah when we got back to school everyone was saying we had sex and everything and i was so upset i broke up with ...

A.   22 June 2008: not next weekend weekend after my birthday he b there :) i duno wht to do lol. wnt to kiss him lol im tht type of person for once i dont tlk about stuff like this :P only thing i dont tlk to him about... fear of rejection! eeeeeeeeeeeep ! but meh ... (read in full...)

I've loved him for 3 years!! Does he like me??

Q.   hey i've been in love with a guy for 3 years and last year we got together when we were alone i asked him if he did like me and he said yeah when we got back to school everyone was saying we had sex and everything and i was so upset i broke up with ...

A.   20 June 2008: yeah well i told my friend today and asked him what he thought he said that he was maybe embarresed of the girl lol he didnt realise i meant myself but he does like her. i dont know what to do i told him that i love him but he will say one thing to ... (read in full...)

I want to loose my virginity! Any advice?

Q.   k i really want to loose my viginity and i kiss my arm and pretend a boy is actually dare but how do i get a boy that is right they all call me ugly but i dont think i am and im hated off all the girls giv me sum advise plzz im 14 x...

A.   20 June 2008: im sure your not ugly and i am your age also. but losing you viginity at such a young age can be regretable wait and find a guy who loves you remember real beauty is skin deep. ... (read in full...)

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