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I am a 3rd year psychology student in a serious relationship, and have experienced a lot in my lifetime.

What do I choose, stay in the current badlife I have or take a chance on the may be goodlife??

Q.   hi everyone im hoping you can help me here,im currently in a relationship with a man whom im in love with yet he treats me bad most of the time,im going away soon an whilst im away im going to see a guy whom as loved an wanted me for the best part ...

A.   3 July 2008: mmmm...i understand the lure of the bad boy, so much fun and excitement, yet so much pain. when i was a teenager, badboys were fun, they treated me really badly, but there were thrilling times, but now, love, respect, stability and safety are all ... (read in full...)

I love my family, but they keep giving me lectures on everything I do! How can I stand up for myself in a good way and not hurt them?

Q.   Hi aunts and uncles. Long time no question. Firstly, let me say I am very close to my family and I know they'd do anything for me and likewise to them. (to cut a story short: I got stranded in Donnington and had to take the bus to bristol then tra...

A.   3 July 2008: i don't know that i'm of much help, but that sounds just like my family. i love them to bits, but i moved out, and now i only get a lecture when my mum calls me weekly. i know that they are only trying to advise me as best they can, but it sure ... (read in full...)

Help! My ex tried to use me to cheat on the mother of his child and she just called me to ask if he's been faithful!!

Q.   Please help me! I don't know what to do... I recently had a very, very complicated situation dropped into my lap. About four months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. Shortly after he moved out he found out his ex-girlfriend that he had dated ...

A.   3 July 2008: i really feel for you, you are in an aweful situation, and it is good that you have put yourself in her position. if i were you, i'd tell her, because he's not only cheating on her, he's cheating on their baby. the earlier she knows what he is up t... (read in full...)

Can you help me with a solution to this letter my wife wrote?

Q.   After 20 years of marriage , she has decided I'm not her ideal husband . She wants a me to not be like me or I need to change to be different . She is a generous , helpful and will do anything to help others . These are things that I am not , ...

A.   2 July 2008: wow, what a blow.... writing a letter is the coward's way, so i guess she's too scared to confront you. what i suggest is a romantic dinner, flowers, to show her you still care and that you want to talk. discuss the situation calmly and dipl... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to my husband's younger brother and had sex with him. Why is this so wrong?

Q.   I'm a married woman in my 20s, I really love my husband. He's in his 20s also. We have a great sex life. Even so, I've been attracted to his younger brother (also in his 20s) since before we got married. Recently, his brother and I got a little ...

A.   2 July 2008: Personally i think it is wrong. when you make a vow as important as marriage, you have to be positive that the man u are marrying is all you want and all you will ever want. as we are only human, we are constantly tested, but true love means that... (read in full...)

I can't get my girlfriends past sex life out my head

Q.   Hi - hope you can help. Have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and just found out that she has been a lot more sexually active than I - sleeping with at least 14 different partners (she is 32). I think this is a lot personally, I am ...

A.   1 July 2008: everyone replying to you seems to be male with the same problem, and i guess some of it is quite helpful, but then, i can't believe that there are so many of you out there. so i'm here to let you know how i feel, as a girl on the other side of the ... (read in full...)

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