Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 6 February 2011: X-streem, I'm going to make this short...you need to come clean with Australian, otherwise your deception continues. Just put yourself in her shoes and see how you would feel. Come clean, then you will know if it was meant to be with Australian or ... (read in full...)
I don't trust him and now he's asked me to marry him
Q. My boyfriend has just asked me to marry him. Problem is I don't trust him completely. He acts weird sometimes, what i mean is he acts like he shouldn't be looking, or he enjoys watching/looking at younger than me women/girls ( thaey are usually ...
A. 18 January 2011: I'm not sure why you want to back track on what you said. I think you were quite deliberate in typing some 800 plus words. It would appear three separate objective responses came to similar conclusions about what you said. To me, the fact that you ... (read in full...)
I don't trust him and now he's asked me to marry him
Q. My boyfriend has just asked me to marry him. Problem is I don't trust him completely. He acts weird sometimes, what i mean is he acts like he shouldn't be looking, or he enjoys watching/looking at younger than me women/girls ( thaey are usually ...
A. 17 January 2011: I think deep down you know the answer to your own question.
While you have had a bad experience in the past, I don't think what you have observed with your current boyfriend has anything to do with that. I think your observational skills are fine... (read in full...)
How do you know that the person you love is your soul mate?
Q. I know this is gonna sound stupid but it something that has been Worrying me for sometime now,I,ve been dating different gys in my Life but seem not to have an answer.I want 2 knw that how Do u tell that the person u in love with is your soul m...
A. 15 January 2011: Frankly, I see this as a loaded question...lol.
Is there any scientific basis for the notion of a soul mate? Or is it primarily some romanticized construct surrounding human love and good fodder for fictional, books and stories?
When people s... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 14 January 2011: X-treem, you said it yourself, you need to grow some balls brother. I mean, you're in your thirties, time is ticking unnecessarily and you're wasting time playing this deception and it's messing with your head. You're obviously intelligent and a ... (read in full...)
My fiance is convinced I cheated on him even thought I didn't because I lied to him
Q. I'm having an issue with my fiancee and was looking for a bit of help... We've been together for almost a year, but a lot of time has been spent apart while I take care of legal issues in the state from which I moved. Over the course of that t...
A. 14 January 2011: Is this a first time thing or have you given him reason to doubt you prior to this?
While I think you know what you did was wrong, I don't think you realize how grave a mistake it was. I mean you are/were playing with fire. Has your fiancé e... (read in full...)
I feel bad for cheating on my partner but feel this is something that I have to do!
Q. I have been with my partner for just over two years now, but its always been a very rocky relationship. He has an issue with other women, well he did until the last 6 months. He has cheated on me 7 times and had other little things with a few other ...
A. 13 January 2011: Beyond the guy you chose to spend the last couple of years with, you need to take a serious look in the mirror, the real problem here is you and you really need to take a good look at yourself:
1. You say this guy cheated on you SEVEN times pl... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 12 January 2011: Hi X-stream, thanks for your response and clarifications on locations. It's funny how you mention you're now in investment banking, that was almost my first career until I realized the type of characters in that field. Let's just say a little ... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 11 January 2011: I'm with chigirl on this one. Frankly, I'd probably be worse.
If I was a friend of yours, I probably wouldn't be once I found this out about you. Moreso, I'd probably consider getting in touch the Australian, only because she is no longer p... (read in full...)
Crazy love story can't let go
Q. Been through a crazy love story and seem not to be able to give up. Even friends and family hope it works out. I'm 25 and met this girl through her sister a couple yrs back she had a long distance relationship of 5 yrs and she is 2 yrs older than ...
A. 9 January 2011: You were with a woman who was cheating on her boyfriend. What did you expect? Face it, you got what you deserved. You went around thinking you're all that sexing it up and 'sneaking' around with a woman who was involved with someone else. Wh... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to talk and text to my 1st love? I am married
Q. I am talking to my first love right now. He hours away. We talk for hours and text quite frequently...is this considered cheating in anyones eyes. I am married to a man who barely speaks to me and rarely touches me. This is filling a huge void ...
A. 8 January 2011: I think you already know what you're doing is not right and technically is cheating. You're going behind your husband's back and I'm assuming the chatting is not entirely platonic from the way you say you both regret the decisions you've made. ... (read in full...)
Every time I start to get over her past, something new pops up!
Q. I have been in a relationship for aprox 10 months and I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriends past. When we first started dating one time after sex we were lying in bed and she started in on the "what's the craziest sexual thing you have ...
A. 7 January 2011: I'm going to agree with others in that you need to come clean with your sexual past in order for folks to give you better advice, but I will give you a few critical pointers. IMO of course. Even though you haven't provided your past it would appear ... (read in full...)
How much is too much when it comes to complimenting girls?
Q. I've had two very serious relationships in my life (they lasted one and five years respectively, and I was going to move in with the last one) and I see a common pattern between them. Okay, two relationships may not be statistically significant, but ...
A. 7 January 2011: I don't think you've given enough information on the women and/or yourself to give advice. But if I had to add something the one thing that struck a cord was when you said you would say that you were lucky to be with them. If you did that plus give ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and distraught at my uncertain situation. What should I do?
Q. hi; i now have no where else to go but get a strict answer from dearcupid. i was searching for a simple resolution to my love problem. i read several questions but none of that defines my problem. ok first of, i'll write all of the story. i c...
A. 7 January 2011: Stopcryingyourheartout...sorry but you need to stop crying your heart out!
What exactly do you need to know?
Ever heard the saying 'actions speak louder than words'?
So, at the end of the day her actions speak louder than words. You and her ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him and omit the part I cheated or end it but still confess?
Q. So my boyfriend and i have been together a year now. i really care about him but we (or i) have a lot of problems. he smokes (marijuana) constantly, is always high, and is basically obsessed with pot. thats all he wants to spend his money on, hes ...
A. 7 January 2011: Seriously, why did you have to go lower yourself? He is clearly not partner material from the rap sheet you have given and now you've gone ahead and proven that you are not that much better and and you're feeling it now.
How long have you know... (read in full...)
I don't want to be angry forever. Any advice?
Q. I have been with my fiance for almost three and a half years. Our relationship got off to a very rocky start. My (then boyfriend) would say negative things about me (too tall, not thin enough, wrong hair colour etc etc). I put up with this for a ...
A. 7 January 2011: Serpico...great straight up response.
Male anonymous reader of Jan. 7/10...great point you made and power to you brother you sound like a rock to deal with your situation. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be angry forever. Any advice?
Q. I have been with my fiance for almost three and a half years. Our relationship got off to a very rocky start. My (then boyfriend) would say negative things about me (too tall, not thin enough, wrong hair colour etc etc). I put up with this for a ...
A. 7 January 2011: He did a really shitty thing to you and then lied about. To be honest, you may forgive but you may not forget. Something you hear, see in a movie, or whenever you hear the word 'cheating' may trigger your thinking in this regard. So he may have ... (read in full...)
When guys ask women about their sexual pasts, do they really want an honest answer?
Q. This question seems like a no-brainer at first... who's going to say they DON'T want honesty? But then I read all the posts on here from people (mainly guys, it seems) who are insecure about what their partners have done before them, and with whom, ...
A. 4 January 2011: Odds, just wanted to say I think that's a great concise response. I think you nailed it right on the head about not lying either. If the truth comes out much later that one was lying then the relationship will be in a world of hurt. A person who ... (read in full...)
My dreams are taking their toll on me!
Q. Let me start by giving you a bit of information on my current situation. My ex and i were together (on and off) for 3 and a half years. In June '10 we broke up and a day or 2 after, he got with another girl. Of course i was heartbroken, but after a ...
A. 4 January 2011: I'll apologize in advance but it pains me to see such scenarios and questions. You are wasting your energies in places that are irrelevant in my opinion, in part because of the skewed perspective you have. I cringe just hearing/reading that you want ... (read in full...)
I've tried to be a friend, but I have been played for a fool
Q. sorry for the length but please guys can anyone advise. ive known a guy for over a year. I thought we were good friends hes had a lot of personal issues and trauma which ive been there for him, hes borrowed a fairly large amount £400 ? in bits over ...
A. 2 January 2011: Sounds like you've tried to be a helpful friend. On the other hand, your guy friend is obviously feeding you a load of crap. Now we can go into his personal problems and wonder why he feels the need to lie to you (and his likely personal ... (read in full...)
Met a great girl at a party, I want to be with her!
Q. I went to a party with my friends and cousins, I met this girl and we talked throughout the whole night we were both sober when we met and we got really drunk, we hold hands and danced all night. Our close friends really want us together, I want to ...
A. 2 January 2011: Piutaah, be wise. Always think beyond the immediate and just don't make yourself and/or her end up some statistic and/or on the Jerry Springer show. How you act and comport yourself is how people will treat you and the type of woman you will ... (read in full...)
How do I get the boyfriend back?
Q. i am 13 and i only had one boyfriend he was nice and all then a weak later he broke up with me but i still like him and it was over a year ago how do i get him back if i still want him and how do i no if he still likes me? im desperate please help ...
A. 1 January 2011: I cringe when I read a question such as yours. Without even knowing anything about you my advice to you is you are too young for a relationship. Beyond that, why do you feel you need a boyfriend (especially at your age)? Answer that for yoursel... (read in full...)
Met a great girl at a party, I want to be with her!
Q. I went to a party with my friends and cousins, I met this girl and we talked throughout the whole night we were both sober when we met and we got really drunk, we hold hands and danced all night. Our close friends really want us together, I want to ...
A. 1 January 2011: What exactly do you mean you want to be with her?IMO you sound like a recipe for disaster. I don't think at your age you should be in any sort of relationship. You are much too young and drinking far too under age. Drinking and women don't mix, you ... (read in full...)
I'm hurting because I don't know where my relationship with my GF is going.
Q. i've been with my gf for a whole three years and i've had the time of my life. but she gets defensive if i even say his name . she talks to other guys and hugs them and when i ask to see her phone, she changes the subject. i've had a lot ...
A. 1 January 2011: Seriously dude? She cheated on you with your best friend? What do you need to know? You can't trust her...period. Beyond that the issue is you and keeping her in the picture. Grow a backbone, or in other words you need to respect yourself and not ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and distraught at my uncertain situation. What should I do?
Q. hi; i now have no where else to go but get a strict answer from dearcupid. i was searching for a simple resolution to my love problem. i read several questions but none of that defines my problem. ok first of, i'll write all of the story. i c...
A. 1 January 2011: Dude, I hate to put it this way but you are not ready for a relationship and neither is woman g. That you both have flunked a year in university proves that to me.
Before going any further, my advice to you is to forget about about girls g and m ... (read in full...)
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