It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 13 June 2008: well I said I hope he's feeling more relaxed now. And he said that I'm rite... he needs to take it easier no matter what. Told me that he's fine... don t worry about him... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 13 June 2008: recently my mum fell sick and i put something like i'm worried on facebook. He msged me asking if everything is fine, but we only talked for like 3 sentences. He asked me not to worry about him and that i was right, he has to learn how to take ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 6 June 2008: it's been 2 weeks as i said and he's not contacted me....and might never will. Yet, I still miss him like crazy of course. I wonder....perhaps the reason why I can't move on is cuz we didn't have a proper closure (he broke up with me via email)? ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 5 June 2008: Thanks Mandy for your support. Yes, it was very low of him to do that...and I keep telling myself I deserve better. But not a moment has gone by without me thinking of him. ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 4 June 2008: I still love him a lot and I can't let go. I have not contacted him as I know he will be happier without having to deal with me. But the thing is we broke up over email and I always felt that I do not have any closure.....however, I wonder ...so ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 4 June 2008: it's been almost 2 weeks....and still nothing from him. is 2 weeks a good sign that he really does not want it anymore?... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 31 May 2008: thanks all. it's been a week.....how much longer do you think I should wait? should i contact him even if he does not call me again? how should i contact him? like 'how are you' or straight to the point that I want to get back together with him?... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 26 May 2008: sigh...the thing is....if we would get back together at all ... (read in full...)
Should I move for love?
Q. My bf and I have been together for almost a year...recently he's relocated to another country and he's asked me to move with him. We are still going to live separately. I am giving up a career here, but he thinks it's not a bad thing for me to be in ...
A. 25 May 2008: The funny thing is, after I've decided to make the move for him....he wants to break up with me ( I have not told him my decision yet). He thinks we want different things (I want to get married..he doesn't) and he said I should find someone else to ... (read in full...)
Should I just end it with him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4months now and it feels lke all we are doing is fucking, my man aint one of them boys that use girls for sex but its like his not showing me the affection i desire no more, and recently told me his worried the ...
A. 21 April 2008: ask him once more again that it's understandable u're young and not looking for anything serious...but would he be serious in say a few years? give u a timeframe is better than leaving u guessing... (read in full...)
How can I trust him again? What can I do?
Q. Hey guys, Ive got myself into s suituation and now i cant see any light at the end of the tunnel. Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 year and now im living with him. in the beginning of our relation i was happy until i read a message...
A. 7 April 2008: u can't trust him. u should move on. if he really loves u, he'll earn back ur trust... (read in full...)
How much time is time? How long should I wait?
Q. Hi aunts (and uncles) I just need to get opinions on what to do next - I am with my guy over 2 years and we split up nearly 4 weeks ago over something silly and stupid (even tho it was mostly my fault/idea to break up in the first place). Bu...
A. 7 April 2008: move on. if he comes back, he's meant to be... (read in full...)
24 and still at home, is that normal?
Q. This may sound silly but here goes. Im 24 years old, 25 in June, and I still live at home with my parents. I am single but that's through choice as I havn't met anyone I like yet. I have a good job and earn good money. I have lots of friends and a ...
A. 5 April 2008: i'm 26 and still living with parents. dun think anything wrong... (read in full...)
How do I know when my boyfriend means it when he says he loves me?
Q. I really, really like my boyfriend. Hes really lovely and perfect to me. weve been goign otu for nearly a month and its all been great, ive shown him that i appreciate him by buying him a small gift. but how do i no that he really likes me? and a...
A. 5 April 2008: u're 13-15. it's probably puppy love... (read in full...)
She wants more commitment I'm happy with the way things are for the moment-advice please?
Q. My girlfriend and I (both in our early twenties) met last summer. She lives six times zones away and so it’s been a 7 month long-distance relationship interspersed with three trips to see each other. To our great frustration, our needs for a ...
A. 28 March 2008: it's funny. but i'm in the exact position as ur gf. I love my bf, but i'm not getting younger and I want commitment while he on the other hand does not want to settle down anytime soon...or even never. I feel that you (or him)...if you love your gf, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not ready to settle down...
Q. Being with someone who's not ready to commit I've brought up this topic several times with my bf. I said I want to get married in around 3 year's time. He said he'll definitely not get married in 3 years, and when I asked further, he said he dunno...
A. 9 March 2008: he's already told me straight he doesn't see himself getting married in 2 years....and he doesn't know when he'll settle down. Which is fair on his side....but yes, my clock is ticking.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not ready to settle down...
Q. Being with someone who's not ready to commit I've brought up this topic several times with my bf. I said I want to get married in around 3 year's time. He said he'll definitely not get married in 3 years, and when I asked further, he said he dunno...
A. 9 March 2008: i am very torn as well.......but I do want a wedding. The wedding dress, and all the works. And I just do not see myself in a relationship with no 'future'. The thing is I know 6 months is a pretty short time for him to commit to something yet I ... (read in full...)
He says I am spoiled and immature and I don't feel good enough for him! Are we on the verge of breaking up? Advice?
Q. What shall I do? My bf and I have been dating for a few months and I thought that everything's perfect until we had a fight recently. Over some stuff I say that I completely do not mean it and I really do not see a bit deal of, and he takes off...
A. 21 November 2007: thanks, your answers had been helpful. We're still together but it seems like things are different. As in we've become friendly to each other instead of being yourself and just be loving. I feel as if now I have to watch whatever I say to him and I ... (read in full...)
Will a 19 year age gap work? I'd love to know from others with age differences in their relationships.
Q. As you can tell from my nickname, there is a 19 year age gap between myself (25) and the guy I'm currently seeing (44). I have been reading the forum, and there are many people with similar 'issue' as me. It seems like there are 2 schools of ...
A. 1 June 2007: i discovered that no matter what a guy appears to be, no matter what his age is, he will always be a jerk. this guy was playing with me all along.... (read in full...)
Is 15 years to much of an age difference?
Q. Is 15 years to much of an age difference?...
A. 23 May 2007: When you're dating a guy 19 yrs older, 15 doesn't seem that much anymore. Similarly, if I'm dating a guy 30 years older, 15 years is nothing.... (read in full...)
Will a 19 year age gap work? I'd love to know from others with age differences in their relationships.
Q. As you can tell from my nickname, there is a 19 year age gap between myself (25) and the guy I'm currently seeing (44). I have been reading the forum, and there are many people with similar 'issue' as me. It seems like there are 2 schools of ...
A. 23 May 2007: Thank you all. Have you gone through periods of ups and downs, aka uncertainties? Like sometimes you feel that you really like him, yet other times you feel that it's not worth it. How did you manage to get through these periods?... (read in full...)
He treats me like a queen, is rich and successful, single, never been married and is a nice guy... but I have some concerns!
Q. Hi I'm sort of dating a 44 yr old man (I'm 25). He's liked me for a year now and when I broke up with my ex, he took the chance to tell me that he likes me. Since then, we've been casually dating. He treats me like a queen, is rich and success...
A. 22 May 2007: thanks for your answers. The thing is I do like him a little, but I don't know if I can ever get over the age gap...... (read in full...)
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