I told her I possibly gave her HIV, but it turned out I didn't have it.
Q. Please i need your advice,i wrote last week concerning my girl friend whom i said;said i gave her hiv,but i tasted negativ.It been 2 month 2day since we saw last,initially she was not in town,but came back 3 days ago,that anxiety of seeing me ...
A. 15 April 2010: You already are broken up. Thats why she isnt seeing you. Have you told her that you dont have HIV? Might make a difference... (read in full...)
Why do guys take so long to call you back?
Q. why do guys take so long to call back? If they don't call after 3 days dose that mean they lost interest?...
A. 15 April 2010: I know lol. I dont get it either They are trying not to look to eager, silly huh... (read in full...)
Since he hasn't asked the question, should I?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two years we live together and have a mortgage and everything is lovely but my problem is that I really want to get engaged and get married. I have started to discuss it a few times and he gives the impression t...
A. 15 April 2010: Guys are funny. We have this notion that we should own a house, a car and have lots of money before we can marry. Its just how we are. If you do want to marry then I think you need to feel him out better on it. Because he may not want that just y... (read in full...)
Why do I keep cheating on my boyfriend?
Q. I keep cheating on my boyfriend. It's as simple as that. I feel like crap, it's happened twice and i've told him twice. The real problem is that I keep flirting and looking for more outside attention. Me and him don't spend very much time together ...
A. 15 April 2010: Firstly you need to make some friends, non sexual relationships are very important and you need both to be happy.
Secondly if you are cheating on him quite alot perhaps you don't really want to be with him, so do him a favour and end it.
A... (read in full...)
Am I the bad guy for not wanting these people as guests?
Q. Hello. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years and living together for almost one year. Today she asked me if it is OK for her son and her X brother n law to come stay the weekend with us. I was totally shocked she aske...
A. 15 April 2010: You should let her son stay, but I can understand why you wouldn't want the ex brother there.
I would however given him 1 chance (and only 1 chance) and if he was nice then that's fine but if hes a ^&%$ in anyway throw him on the street. ... (read in full...)
My bits don't look like the girls in porn.
Q. So any help fr guys would be apreciated, basically. As embarasing as it is my vagina isn't like the ones I've seen in certain porn videos! It's got tight small outer lips everything is good except on my right side one of the inner lips sticks out ...
A. 15 April 2010: Your fine. pls dont worry so much about your body. Its whats btween your ears that will give you the best relationships.
As a guy I would only critacise a virgina if it wasnt wet.....nuf said... (read in full...)
Should I just isolate myself from women forever?
Q. I unfortunately lost my virginity at the age of 30 to a prostitute, and I have gone through a lot of mixed emotions since. Does this mean I am abnormal? I feel disgusted with myself. Can someone say something to put my mind at ease? I am still 30 ...
A. 12 April 2010: I would advise to do the opposite. Its obvous that you dont understand women very well. Have you considered having a girl as just a friend?
This is a great way to get more comfortable around the opposite sex. Also you need to get out more and meet... (read in full...)
Problem with agressive sex!
Q. I have been dating a guy for over 4 months now, from the 1st time we met we have either seen each other or talked on the phone every night. From the beginning he has told me about his past, which involved sleeping with a lot of girls. He feels a ...
A. 11 April 2010: He is either gay or an emotional wreck. Nither path will lead you to happiness, dump him now... (read in full...)
Will my husband seek a younger replacement?
Q. I wonder if man cheats on their wife's,and leaves them for someone else , more often ,than women does/? I have an impression,that in young age maybe it is sort of equal, woman and man both searching,and cheating. But the way I see ,after long ...
A. 11 April 2010: Quite awhile ago know a book came out saying Men are from Mars and women are from venus, this was then and is now a load of crap. Men are from earth and so are women. Our differences are very superficial and actually quite small. Simply put we ar... (read in full...)
I don't trust her reassurances
Q. OK so my gf is a tour guide. The problem is that she meets a lot of guys that she keeps in contact with through msn etc. It's making me feel very jealous. Just tonight she was chatting to one guy from Egypt and he was starting to get very suggest...
A. 11 April 2010: I hear you. She the flirty type. I know several girls who say the most strong sexual things you will ever hear. Its just fun for them and doesnt mean anything really to them. I sometimes think its the only way they know how to talk to guys ... (read in full...)
Hard after ejaculation - is this normal?
Q. *OP's own title* Hiya I'm a 16 year-old girl, my boyfriend is 18 and we've been dating for a long while. Recently I started giving him handjobs... But after he cums he stays hard. Is this normal?...
A. 11 April 2010: I used to stay hard too. I had a rather large swx drive though and still do. I also used to maintain a hard on most of the night when my partner stayed over
It has never caused me any problems ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is ready for sex but I am too scared and nervous
Q. Hey okay im 17 and in all honesty i am fairly new in the whole dating and sex game and my boyfriend whom im been with for a year already want to have sex....problem is i don't because Im nervous and scared as all hell.....what do i do??? HELP!!!!...
A. 11 April 2010: I lost my virginity at 19, i think that was a good age. I was ready then, and i actually made my gf wait a month as she wasnt a virgin. But as it was my first relationship I wanted it to be special, and it was. So until you're ready tell him y... (read in full...)
How to Get Back Your Ex Boyfriend- 4 Steps
Q. So you’re looking to get back your ex boyfriend. Well where do you start? I know from personal experience it can be confusing. I remember I just felt like running up to my ex and telling him I loved him! This is bad by the way (we’ll talk more about ...
A. 10 April 2010: Trying to get an ex back is pointless and stupid.
You broke up in the first place bacause you wernt compatible. At the end of the day you still arnt, because you are you and they are they.
You will just make eachother unhapy and break up aga... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I am taken aback by my wife admitting how many people she has slept with?
Q. me and my wife are both 30 and been together for 12 months. we recently did the "how many people have you slept with" conversation and she confessed to sleeping with 36 people, mine is 12. am i wrong to feel slightly taken aback by her sleeping with ...
A. 9 April 2010: Try loking at it from a different angle.
Imagine her, trying to live her life and hoping to meet someone special and being let down alot.
Truth is she wanted you, but hadnt met you yest and though that these other people were you.
I doubt ... (read in full...)
Do we all find happiness and true love?
Q. do we all find happiness and true love?xxx...
A. 9 April 2010: I have found that in life you get out what you put in. The more effort I have made the better I have done. Thus as another AU has said you make your happiness. A good tip to be happy is to appreciate the little things and becarful not to start tak... (read in full...)
Does porn improve bj technique
Q. Ok this one is mostly for the guys.. I was wondering if watching people in porn (i don't just mean pornstars but "amateurs" too) give oral is a good place to pick up tips. What do you think? Would you encourage your gf to copy some of the more por...
A. 9 April 2010: Practice with your bf would be better, just ask him what he likes and go from there, its not rocket science... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I can tell my mum I have got my first period.
Q. hi, im 13 and yesturday morning, i had blood in my knickers, which im sure was my first period. at first i panicked, but then i calmed my self down and used tissue. i dont feel i can talk to my mum about it just yet, but im worried that it will get ...
A. 9 April 2010: You must tell your mum right away. You will need pads.
Although I am a guy I have had several gfs and I can tell you during your cycle it can get messy and a tissue isnt going to save you at school.
This isnt something you should be embarr... (read in full...)
Why can't my boyfriend talk to me about what he is feeling?
Q. My boyfriend is being extremely distant. I'm not sure if it's because he is stressed about being in school full time and working full time. Or if it is because he is rethinking 'us'. We have been together 2 years, why can't he talk to me about how ...
A. 9 April 2010: Tell him that it hurts you when he doesnt share whats ong on in his head.
I have to warn you that guys are bread to hide their emotions and I personally have always found by showing my vulnribility, that I loose the respect of the girl.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is moving too fast for me.
Q. Ok well, me and this boy were dating in february and we really liked eachother but then out of no where he broke up with me. We still talked 24/7. We even talked on the phone the night of the breakup. We just still cant get enough of eachother but ...
A. 9 April 2010: You not wrong. That cannot start until you are ready. Or yuo will regret it.
Just tell him straight that you arnt ready... (read in full...)
What should I do? Do I tell him the truth or not?
Q. *OP's own title* ive liked my brothers best Friend for 4years now:( i think about him all the time. hes soo sweet, charming, caring and very sexy. *when we hug he squeeze me and holds me tight. i really really REALLY like him:( i dont kno...
A. 9 April 2010: Can you talk to him away from your brother? I have to advise against this as it causes problems.
My sister dated my brothers roomate in secret and regrets it.
But if your heart is set on it then, try suggesting that you hang out some time, k... (read in full...)
Are men just 'wired' to want to sleep around?
Q. Sandra Bullock. Elin Woods. Shania Twain. Jennifer Aniston. Sienna Miller (both the cheater and the cheatee). Today's news brings information on Gabrielle Beauvouis (can't spell her name) also being cheated upon for 5 years. Kate fucking Gosselin. ...
A. 9 April 2010: Not true at all. You need to look at the men those women you mention to see the truth. It is said to be a good actor you have to be emotionally shallow, and most starts and famous people are. These people really believe their own hype and thus en... (read in full...)
I told him how I feel about him but he hasn't responded!
Q. What do you do when u tell the guy u like how u feel about him and he says nothing?! I sent the guy I've been dating for 3 months a text after staying over at his for a couple of days that I had a really nice time with him and I really wanna ma...
A. 9 April 2010: Hard to say really, there are alot of reasons that he hasnt called you back.
My mobile phone (cell phone) stopped working for 3 days for no reason atall and my family thought I was mad at them.
If he leads a rather hectic life then he may not ... (read in full...)
Insecure about having sex
Q. I am a 21 year old virgin guy with 3.5 inch penis. I'm really worried about my sexual life about my penis size. please help. Am I normal? Can I increase the size?...
A. 8 April 2010: Your size is fine.
Dont worry about it so much, remember a relatioship is more than just sex... (read in full...)
I'm 19, she's 15, and she's my second cousin! What can come out of this?
Q. Im 19 and shes 15... Thats my main concern, if it were 26 and 22 the idea wouldn't be that big a deal. Its just that our age group is a bit more sensitive. There is nothing going on yet, but we are both sending signals to each other and its pretty ...
A. 7 April 2010: How close is your family? Do your parents know hers?
If yes then its a can of worms and you should leave it for now. If you break up you whole family will side with her... (read in full...)
I want to end my marriage without trying as I don't love my husband
Q. I am 28 yrs married for 1 1/2 yr to a man I knew 2 yrs younger to me.We met 5 times and agreed on marriage.After marriage it took us 1 yr to ve a physical relationship as he was not trying enough, as my work hrs were long, as he never tried to relax ...
A. 7 April 2010: The answer is very simple to say, but not so easy to do.
You need to assert yourself on thi ssituation and take control of your life. Make it clear that your marrige is over and start the divorce now. Let your parents yell. They will get over it ... (read in full...)
He doesn't believe I was a virgin!
Q. Alrite so theres this guy .. we've been dating about 7 mnths now... and we had sex for the first time ... he was a virgin and so was i !... i've never been physical with any guy in my life expect him. then after the sex he tells me that he does...
A. 7 April 2010: Poor dear, I bet this is just awful for you.
The other aunts are right, get him to read this and then he can apologise for being so mean to you.
... (read in full...)
Anal sex problem!
Q. I had anal sex for the first time it didn't hurt and I don't know if he was even all the way in, but i felt him go off... about 40 minutes later i had cramping and diahorrea, is that normal?...
A. 7 April 2010: Well to be honest its a dangerous area, your butt really isnt ment for that. I would see if it sorts itself out.
But if a day passes and its still uncomfortable see your doctor... (read in full...)
Does it hurt males to loose their virginity?
Q. i have been thinking about sex and i am scared. will something happen to my penus if i lose my virginity. will it hurt...
A. 5 April 2010: Yes actually you can hurt yourself. If she is alittle to tight then it will hurt abit. And if she isnt wet that can hurt too.
But all in all, no it will be fine... (read in full...)
I'm Christian but I want to have sex.
Q. Hi. I'm 17 years old and im horny a lot. I masturbate once a day right before i go to bed. sometimes twice a day. I have never kissed a girl, gone out with a girl or had sex. :(...I am a Christian so i want to keep my purity until marriage but i ...
A. 4 April 2010: I'll try something a bit different.
Lets forget the pro religion and anti religion theme, and ill just answer ok.
At your age it is normal to want to try sex, I did too. If you do go ahead and try it in the next few years, you wont regret it. ... (read in full...)
Does true love exist?
Q. how do you know when true love is true love? or does it even exist? please comment...
A. 4 April 2010: True love is when you cant stop thinking about someone your pretty sure you dont even like... (read in full...)
Do you guys appreciate manicured nails on a girl?
Q. Inspired by a chat on another topic, ... I am wondering guys, do you appreciate seeing a well manicured hand/nails when a girl has hold of your goodies, .. or does it go completely un noticed? I kinda thought it adds to an overall effect a...
A. 4 April 2010: Nope, i find nails a turn off... not sure why really.
I also never notice earings or shoes. I have a weak sense of smell so I rarely notice perfune either.
The first thing I notice about a girl is her eyes... (read in full...)
Is there anything I should do?
Q. I'm a singer in a hotel and my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship. It's really hard for me not to be with him, but i need to work for my sister's.. Anyway, i had a bit of a problem with my boyfriend. I just noticed that this past ...
A. 4 April 2010:
The prblem might be small and he will get over it, or it might be large but you wont know until you talk to him about it.
So my advice is to ask him how he feels about your relationship
... (read in full...)
How do I get her to love me again?
Q. Ok where should i start !!! My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 years. She moved in with me after we dated for 1 year. In the last 5 years we have been threw it all... I have cheated on her both emotionally and physical, and even tho ...
A. 4 April 2010: It a simple matter of undoing all you have done.
Take care of her, make her feel important and special. It will take along time to turn this around but I think you wont regret it... (read in full...)
Can I use water to flush myself out after having unprotected sex?
Q. can i use water to flush myself out after having unprotected sex?...
A. 4 April 2010: Ive seen a few girls use a strange technique of pushing all the cum out. I dont think its 100% though.
If they swim upstream then you are a momy... (read in full...)
How should I respond to what he said?
Q. What does it mean when a guy, who i have been going for couple months tell me that "with me, you are so innocent" after making out with me? ( i did not touch his ****) Second, he said he is so frustrated everytime i left him there after our making...
A. 2 April 2010: A couple of months is a long time to keep him waiting.
Id be getting a little antsy too. However I alway have believe that sex takes care of itself so there is no point forcing it.
I am curous though, why have you been waiting so long? Do you ... (read in full...)
Do my dreams mean I'm gay?
Q. So I've never been in a relationship before. So i really don't know what I am. I'm 15 and I've always had weird feelings.Always felt different. But I have a close friend named Joe. Now since like the new year I've been having weird dreams. Not ...
A. 2 April 2010: Dreams can mean almost anything.
You could be simply wishing that you had a girl who you could have as much fun with as you do your friend.
I wouldnt worry about it, some people are "late bloomers" like me, i started dating at age 19.
You m... (read in full...)
What's the best way to contact an ex?
Q. i want to contact my ex after 6 months of no contact. whats the best way to do it?...
A. 2 April 2010: My advice is dont
Instead meet someone new... (read in full...)
I know he'll really hurt me but I don't want to be just friends!
Q. Can't get over someone i know is no good for me. He's a lying cheating scumbag but we are really good friends and i have fallen completely for him. i can't break the friendship off, that's not fair to him but i can't control my feelings anymore. i ...
A. 2 April 2010: ahhh you want the bad boy huh
Hes exciting isnt he, and you just know you will have loads of fun with him.
There are two questions you should ask yourself:
1. Why do you want to ruin your life by being used up and spat out?
2. Cant you... (read in full...)
Are there any faithful men out there?
Q. Hey everyone! I was wondering ....Is there such a thing as a faithful man? Even after so many years? No offence guys just got myself out of a bad and long relationship and I am worried/scared : / What are your experiences? Thank you ...
A. 2 April 2010: Are there faithful men? Yes you are taking to one.
I have ben cheated on a few times and I know how awful the feeling is. However I put it down to the person, not the gender.
There are plenty of honest people, i pesonally believe that che... (read in full...)
She lives on the other side of the country and has a boyfriend, how could things get any worse?
Q. Last year, I went to an overnight camp on the other side of the country and met the most amazing girl I had ever laid eyes on. It was love at first sight. By about the time that i was about to leave camp, we knew we were into each other but we didnt ...
A. 2 April 2010: ok then
Well, you need to keep chatting everyday, and send her a gift.. a teddy bear that has you name would be good.
You need also to emphasise that you like doing the things she likes. So that she wants to chat with you over anyone else.
... (read in full...)
She lives on the other side of the country and has a boyfriend, how could things get any worse?
Q. Last year, I went to an overnight camp on the other side of the country and met the most amazing girl I had ever laid eyes on. It was love at first sight. By about the time that i was about to leave camp, we knew we were into each other but we didnt ...
A. 1 April 2010: You are about to learn several of lifes lessions.
So do you want the bad news or the worse news?
You are in love with her, but she isnt , you are a good friend to her...nothing more.
So now you have to decide if that is enough because you wo... (read in full...)
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