I don't like my husband's female friend!
Q. Hi, My husband has a female friend I really don't like. The fact that we were dating and then living together, got married and just had a baby and I am just meeting her after almost 4 years really annoys me and frankly quit ticks me off. The fir...
A. 22 December 2011: That's good maybe he's not as attached to her as it seems... (read in full...)
Why cant my ex just forgive me for cheating on him? I regret my actions yet he's stubborn as hell
Q. I know it's long, hope someone wants to read it though.. I really want to get back with my ex boyfriend who I had 5 years ago (at this time i was 15 and he was 19). He was my first love and I was his, we had a wonderful relationship and...
A. 21 December 2011: I'm so sorry but he still doesn't trust you so he can't give himself completely to any type of relationship with you at this stage. You will have to accept whatever crumbs of friendship/contact he offers as you are in no position to demand ... (read in full...)
Paranormal Activity?
Q. I feel like I'm going crazy. I'm so scared right now and I suppose I've been feeling uneasy for some time, I've just been trying to ignore it... But I’m really starting to think that there might be something in my house. It started off smal...
A. 21 December 2011: I would definately get someone in to cleanse the house. A priest or medium or someone like that. It sounds creepy I would be frightened too. My other two suggestions are to sit on your bed and speak out loud asking the spirit what he/she wants ... (read in full...)
He doesn't say, "I love you" on a regular basis after 2 years! Not normal?...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for over two years. I am a very affectionate and loving person. He is not too affectionate and it annoys me. It makes me feel like he doesn't love or care about me. Another thing that bothers me is that he doesn't say, "i ...
A. 17 December 2011: The fact that he doesn't say I love you is nothing to worry about in my opinion because some people just don't express their feelings aloud instead they prefer to show someone how they feel about them through actions. Which brings me to the rest of ... (read in full...)
Why am I so sensitive?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm 15 almost 16 and I have noticed that I am quite a sensitive girl, although I don't always act like it. I easily get upset and little things make me feel really unhappy, for example I'm a good girl in school and clumsey me forgo...
A. 17 December 2011: It's most likely your age. Time and maturity will sort this out for you... (read in full...)
New to dating and questioning his intentions
Q. I'm kind of rusty when it comes to dating. Actually I've never dated. I've always been friends with a guy, then we'd go right into a relationship. I recently met a guy while I was out with friends. Given the circumstances, guys you meet out are ...
A. 17 December 2011: You can't really start thinking long term with someone until you actually get to know them and that's what dating is all about. Spend som time with him and getting to know him before you start thinking about anything more long term.... (read in full...)
How can I really make her want me???
Q. Right so to make this less complicated I'm gonna use fake names; I'm a girl and bi. There's this guy I know called Noah and we're always flirting, kissing and cuddling. We have love you more fights and hold hands. We're not in a relation...
A. 17 December 2011: Is this girl straight or gay or otherwise? If she's straight then move on from her because you will get hurt. If she is gay then ask her out. As for the boys tell them straight out that you want to be mates with them, no more kissing.... (read in full...)
I thought I didn't want him but know I realize I do, how can I get him back?
Q. What do I do now ?? One night, I ended up kissing him my best friends boyfriend who I have always been very close to, the next day he broke up with her. After all this I carried on seeing him in secret, slept with him had a good time with him, not...
A. 17 December 2011: Oh dear I would say he decided enough was enough the night you thought something had changed and got angry. It was very early in the relationship to become demanding and angry so I'm guessing he thought, "Mate this is too hard, I'm off."
My advi... (read in full...)
She is making me suffer, I want my identity back! Please help me, I'm depressed!
Q. Hi guys... I had changed schools and when I came I had the respect and all and I was friends with a girl everyone hated very much at that time. She was alone. Yet, I told myself that it dint matter. Then she never ised to let me talk to anyone. ...
A. 17 December 2011: Teaching her a lesson by hurting her just takes you down to the same level as her. Avoid even speaking to this girl if she is going to twist everything you say. Look around, there will be other people out there who have no friends and need someone ... (read in full...)
I don't like my husband's female friend!
Q. Hi, My husband has a female friend I really don't like. The fact that we were dating and then living together, got married and just had a baby and I am just meeting her after almost 4 years really annoys me and frankly quit ticks me off. The fir...
A. 17 December 2011: Yep I'd be feeling like you are about her too! I'm not sure what to advise you to do here. Can you talk to her about it? Ask her what the deal is with her friendship with your hubby. She might be more honest about it than him.... (read in full...)
Am I catching wrong feelings?
Q. well theres this boy who has a player reputation. he flirts with everybody, and i flirt alot too(but i am not a hoe). but lately hes stopped flirting with alot of girls and started flirting with me more.. keep in mind were both single. so, today, a...
A. 11 December 2011: Go see him and go to the mall and see what happens but keep taking it slowly.... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to overcome shyness and low self esteem?
Q. hi, so i fear i have social anxiety , i am very shy , no self confidence in anything i do and very low self esteem and i hate the way i look. i dont go out (besides work mon-fri) ive kinda lost touch with my mates from school. we've all drifted ...
A. 11 December 2011: The best way to overcome shyness is to get out there and talk to people. Stop spending all day on facebook and be amongst real people instead. The longer you leave it the worse it will get.... (read in full...)
Is he flirting with me or are his comments harmless jokes?
Q. Does this man find me attractive or not? I'm not interested in him, but i'm just curious, as i can't understand why he says these things if he doesn't. He once said " There's not many people who would kick you out of bed " , and that must mean som...
A. 11 December 2011: Men are very visual creatures and even though he's married that doesn't mean he can't appreciate a beautiful woman. I think these comments are harmless but if it makes you feel uncomfortable then speak up and don't take it.... (read in full...)
How to move forward in an off and on relationship
Q. Just wondering if it sounds like I'm being ridiculous.. In almost 3.5 years, my bf has broken it off twice. This is our 3rd time back together. Each time we broke up or got back together it was always a bit of a surprise. I would go back to him v...
A. 11 December 2011: I would go and see a therapist and talk about why you feel so insecure. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend pressures me to have sex and I hate it
Q. My boyfriend always wants sex and I hate sex more than anything. Is it normal for me to feel so guilty for saying no. he gives me this rude attitude after I tell him my answer, helpppp I dont know what to do. I have talked to him about it a ...
A. 11 December 2011: I can see both sides here. No one should be pressured into sex and unwanted sex is nauseating but on the other hand a relationship without sex is just a friendship and you will lack that special closeness and intimacy that can only be achieved with ... (read in full...)
Is my best friend's girlfriend flirting with me?
Q. Does my bestfriends girlfriend like me? We was at a family party a few weeks ago and i was stood infront of her in a kind of crowed room talkin to a friend and i could feel her breast pushing into my arm so i started to push my elbow hard into her ...
A. 11 December 2011: Don't go there you will lose your best friend!... (read in full...)
Am I too optimistic about rekindling a relationship with my ex-boyfriend?
Q. I feel like I either have the opportunity of a lifetime or am just fooling myself, for the second time, by being too idealistic. Here's the situation: Two months ago, my boyfriend dumped me. His reasons were that he wanted more sex than time an...
A. 11 December 2011: Ooooo I would be very careful here. Don't invest too much hope in this guy as his reputation preceeds him. He sounds to me like he wants his cake and wants to eat it too.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is too shy when it comes to sex
Q. Hey guys. I've been with my girlfriend for a while now. It's nearly been two years and she's way tooooo innocent. Like i dont mind it but it halts us from advancing from anything. Like if i try initiate dirty talk, she would immediately reply with ...
A. 11 December 2011: I don't go for dirty talk much either, but I like watching porn. There will be something she likes for sure you just have to find out what it is. You've heard the expression there's no point beating a dead dog? You are beating a dead dog by ... (read in full...)
I can't compete sexually with my wife's former lover
Q. My wife's last lover had a bigger penis, greater stamina and could please her with vaginal intercourse. I feel so inadequate and don't know why I should make any more pathetic attempts. Any advice?...
A. 11 December 2011: Did she tell you this or are you putting two and two together and coming up with six? Despite what men think women don't lust after huge penis's. It's not the size that matters it's the man it's on that counts. ... (read in full...)
How can I avoid sex in a loveless marriage?
Q. Is it possible to stay married, not be love and avoid sex with husband all the time? Is there anyone here who has been in this situation? Please share your views and experience to help me. Many thanks.....
A. 2 December 2011: Personally I don't think you should stay. Life is too short to be unhappy and unforefulled.
All the best I hope you get through the other side! :-)... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friend has crossed the line
Q. I am friends with my boyfriend's guy friend and his girlfriend...We double date occasionally. Well, I never really talk to the guy friend and my boyfriend never really talks to his girlfriend, except when we're all together...so this guy recently ...
A. 2 December 2011: Double up... (read in full...)
Is this weight gain normal even during pregnancy?
Q. Hi. I'm just under 7 weeks pregnant and am due for a termination tomorrow due to medical problems that could risk my life if I continue with my pregnancy. I've come to terms with all of this and I'm okay in myself at the moment. I've got the sup...
A. 2 December 2011: Yes it's normal. At the beginning of pregnancy there are mega amounts of hormones racing around preparing your body for pregnancy, birth and breastfeeding. It will all settle down and you will bounce back. Eat healthly and get some exercise and ... (read in full...)
How should I deal with a guy who flirts with my girlfriend?
Q. So theres this guy who flirts with my girlfriend and it pisses me off. He bribes her for pictures and tries to turn her on. Just like every other woman, she hides a lot and i know it, and she tells me not to say anything. What should i do?...
A. 2 December 2011: Relax. You have her he doesn't. A little flirting is harmless. Be secure in the knowledge that she picked you.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't seem to appreciate me
Q. Alright people I would like to thank anyone who took the time to read this post. Ok so I am in this relationship that will be 2 years in a few days. I've been with this girl since my sophomore year in high school and recently I have a "Wall" in ...
A. 2 December 2011: I'm with female anon. Back off a bit and become a little distant yourself with her.... (read in full...)
Tons of drama but I love her
Q. Lately me and my gf of 7 years have been arguing A LOT...we see each other on weekends and lately every weekend has had some sort of argument. Yesterday we didnt make it 30min before we started arguing. We broke up 3 years ago and she started ...
A. 20 November 2011: It all sounds like too much hard work to me. I would move on if I were you.... (read in full...)
How do I wear this sexy nurse's uniform for my husband?
Q. Okay, so I just bought a really sexy nurses costume and I had to keep reminding myself that I have the confidence to even buy it. My question is, How can wear it for my husband,and not look like a total idiot?...
A. 20 November 2011: Wait till he's in bed then put it on in the bathroom and come out with a fake syringe and ask him if he called for a nurse.... (read in full...)
Does his email sound genuine?
Q. I met this guy online and I really like him. -I am aware from the very beginning that he is trying to finish his PhD dissertation, and I know it can get very stressful. He used to write me about twice every week, but lately he just does it once ...
A. 20 November 2011: I would say it's the full quid. Trying to finish a PhD is hard work. Wait until he's finished it and then see what the contact is like. Cool your heels with your friends until then.... (read in full...)
How can I make relationships last longer?
Q. Dear cupid I'm 21 years and I'm having a problem dating. I'm not good at sex and I can't seem to last in relationships,I don't know what to do please help??...
A. 18 November 2011: What makes you think you are not good at sex? Sex is about finding out what your partner likes so ask him/her lots of questions about what feels good etc. People underestimate the value of being a listener. Listen really listen to people and you ... (read in full...)
He moans about giving me oral, am I being unreasonable?
Q. Do I have the right to be upset? Thank you for all advice and for your time! I appreciate it all so much!!! I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. About two and a half months into our relationship we began to become intimate. I go d...
A. 18 November 2011: I'm not hugely into oral. It makes me nervous and I have no idea why? If the sex begins to be a deal breaker then leave.... (read in full...)
How to locate a sibling that was put up for adoption?
Q. My husband has a younger brother that was given up for adoption. Both of his parents have passed and the only information I have is...... His birth name (which I believe was changed after the adoption) The hospital he was born in the year he was b...
A. 18 November 2011: Do you have enough money to use the services of someone who specialises in this? There are lots of people who have found missing loved ones using an investigator type service. All the best I hope you find him.... (read in full...)
Sex is all about him - he does nothing for me and I feel unsatisfied
Q. What do you make of this? My husband and I have been together for 10 years.. married for 7. We have 2 children. OK this is going to get kinda graphic.... so we recently went 18 months without having sex. If he ever wants it, it completely ...
A. 18 November 2011: A virbrator??? I mean a vibrator :-)... (read in full...)
Sex is all about him - he does nothing for me and I feel unsatisfied
Q. What do you make of this? My husband and I have been together for 10 years.. married for 7. We have 2 children. OK this is going to get kinda graphic.... so we recently went 18 months without having sex. If he ever wants it, it completely ...
A. 18 November 2011: Get a virbrator and use it in front of him and when he wonders why tell him it's because it does for you the things he wont.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my ex and we're both re-married
Q. I love with my Ex, and both of us are remarried!! Okay, here it goes. We were married for 28 years, and have two beautiful daughters. My wife could no longer handle the kids, and had an affair which let to our divorce. We both got remarrie...
A. 10 November 2011: Just keep in mind how hurt your current wife would be if you cheated on her. You and your ex should both ensure you are single before you make any moves.... (read in full...)
I can't see a future for us while her weed-smoking, unemployed brother is living here!
Q. Ive moved into my girlfriends home 6 months ago knowing the fact that her brother lives with her. We both have good jobs and money is not an issue but her 33 yr old brother (thats been living with her for the last 5yrs) doesnt work and hasnt since ...
A. 10 November 2011: As long as she keeps enabling him he will remain a sponging user. He needs a short sharp shock. Encourage her to kick him out and force him to stand on his own two feet. If she doesn't do this he will never wake up to himself!... (read in full...)
What could have caused my former friend to change toward me?
Q. I am a woman in her late 20's. I have an acquaintance (ex-friend)who i have known for a while. For most of the time i have known him, he has been avoiding me and not allowing me to be apart of our group activities. Although is is very much older ...
A. 10 November 2011: The only way you are going to get any answers is to ask him straight out.... (read in full...)
He chose to watch sexy nurses instead of time with me!
Q. My boyfriend chose watching sexy nurses on TV instead of reading the horoscope with me...what should I do?...
A. 8 November 2011: I'm not into horoscopes and would rather watch tv than read one. I don't think this is a problem... (read in full...)
Episodes of My childhood – Unloved & Abused By My Mother
Q. This is my story...I am the eldest sister of Bluegem and whiteopal who have both recently posted letters on Dear Cupid, and I endorse everything they say about the verbal and physical abuse we suffered when growing up. This is only a little...
A. 8 November 2011: Your father is as much to blame for this situation as your mother. He has sat back and done nothing about your mother's abuse in fact he has removed himself from the situation because he was too gutless to do anything about it. This is just as ... (read in full...)
We have a love hate relationship, what should my next move be?
Q. My boyfriend comes out with nasty comments when we argue, by saying things such as " you're the bane of my life " and sometimes i ask if he is cheating on me ( i say it out of anger ) and he says " no, but i wish i was ". He calls me a b***h ...
A. 4 November 2011: Leave! This is not a normal relationship. Move on and be happy. ... (read in full...)
Episodes of My childhood – Unloved & Abused By My Mother
Q. This is my story...I am the eldest sister of Bluegem and whiteopal who have both recently posted letters on Dear Cupid, and I endorse everything they say about the verbal and physical abuse we suffered when growing up. This is only a little...
A. 4 November 2011: Your mother sounds like a very sick person. You are so not to blame for anything that happened to you in your childhood.
Just realise you had to misfortune to be the daughter of a person incapable of loving anyone including herself. In a way ... (read in full...)
If you received or read a text like this what would you think?
Q. If you had sent a general innocent comment to a male friend about some hedgerow cutting and he would have been genuinely interested to hear about it (and your female) and they replied 'bout time to' (I must admit I like a well trimmed bush) would ...
A. 4 November 2011: Depends how well the two of you know this man. I have some friends that my husband wouldn't think a thing of if they sent a comment like that to me but if it came from someone he didn't he'd probably find it weird. Honestly though I would take it ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why I don't feel the same as I did toward her
Q. Funny thing...i always thought relationship were easy to read...and now however i am very confused... I've been with this girl for some time now...18 months...there was a spark at the begging...or mutual understanding...something that lead us to ...
A. 4 November 2011: Life is like that. We fall in love and then out of it sometimes. It just the way it goes.... (read in full...)
How could she move on so soon?
Q. Just wanted some sound advice. My partner left me after an 18 year relationship and I found out when trying to resolve things that within three weeks she was dated someone else. She ended the relationship in a cruel way and I didn't get closure. I ...
A. 4 November 2011: What you are feeling is completely normal and shows that you have a brain a heart and some feelings unlike your ex whom I think you are probably well rid of from what she has done. Allow yourself to grieve as it's important to get it all out. You ... (read in full...)
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