He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 16 March 2011: That's good. Time heals all wounds eventually.... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 24 August 2010: Honestly I wouldn't confront him cause if you really stop and think about it this is a waste of time it's not going to sink in with him. Write him a letter that you DONT send and tell him everything you want to say. Get it all off your chest and ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 14 July 2010: You're welcome go forth and be happy. May the force be with you :-)... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 31 May 2010: See if I was you're mother I'd be mighty worried about you right now because if your experiencing all that you can not be acting normally. Most mothers will fight tooth and nail to help their kids when there is something wrong with them so I still ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 30 May 2010: I'm starting to wonder if you actually like wallowing in misery since you don't seem keen to follow any of the suggestions put to you by any posters. Your replies are starting to sound pretty whinny and whingey. Come on dude pull your head in and ... (read in full...)
Do I pick the guy who I have the history with, or the guy who makes my heart skip a beat?
Q. i am torn between two guys. the first guy i have known him for 8 years, we have been friends with benefits on and off for about 6 years, i always felt like he was the love of my life. didn't matter who i was with i always ended back with him. but in ...
A. 30 May 2010: Yes I think you can be in love with two people at once. Lets face it we manage to love as many children as we produce and our partner at the same time. But hey lets be practical here unless you move to Cuba or he moves to your country you can't be ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him why I deleted him?
Q. So there is this guy that I was working with on a project for the past two months. In these two months we became pretty close and somehow we developed a great friendship. In the last two weeks of our working together he told me that he liked me...
A. 30 May 2010: No I wouldn't. Just move on and forget him.... (read in full...)
I don't like him texting girls late at night. Should I confront him?
Q. I don't mind that my boyfriend had friends that are girls, but I told him that I don't want him talking/texting them late, which I consider after midnight as I was told this was "Booty call time". And keep in mind that we live together. As far as I ...
A. 30 May 2010: Yeah to be honest it would peeve me off too. I wouldn't want people texting my man at that time of the night either. Also I think you have a right to be annoyed that he's hidden it from you but you need to be really careful about how you go about ... (read in full...)
Am I just wasting his time?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 3years. And I love my boyfriend very much. We are at the age where people start talking about marriage and babies. We've been having this talk. I love him and can't imagine my life without him. But I don't know if I ...
A. 30 May 2010: Does he know that you are not sure about marriage? If he does and he's upset about it then he's the one wasting his time not you. So long as you are upfront about your feelings then you have nothing to feel guilty about. It's when you lead ... (read in full...)
My ex is pregnant, why is it suddenly churning me up?
Q. I broke up with my last girlfriend around 8 months ago, we parted on good terms. We still kept in touch went for coffee and stuff (we were friends and colleagues before we started going out.)I knew she had got back together with her previous ...
A. 30 May 2010: I'm thinking it's that final confirmation that your relationship is really truly over, and that's what's making you feel funny. I remember feeling like that when my first love got a new girlfriend. I was already happily moved on with my own ... (read in full...)
I'm ready for a relationship but she isn't yet. Will she ever be?
Q. I have been having intense feelings for this girl for about six months now at least. When I first developed feelings for her, she had a serious girlfriend so I didn't act upon my feelings. But recently she has split with that girlfriend and since ...
A. 30 May 2010: Yes I know what you mean I've been in that kind of situaion before too. Honestly I would remain aquaintances only with her and move on to find happiness with someone who can return it to you. That way you are not going to feel so gutted every day. ... (read in full...)
We're leaving school and going our separate ways, I'm in pieces and he doesn't seem to care!
Q. I regret not making a move on this guy.. i've fancied him for over a year and he found out i liked him and didn't like me back at the time but 6 months later he started becoming really interested in me and i really have a feeling he likes or liked ...
A. 27 May 2010: Sorry sweet you are not going to like my answer. I understand how you feel but I think you need to just let it go. You will meet someone else and forget all about this brief period in your life. Forget about this guy as he obviously was not ... (read in full...)
I've been suspicious of my boyfriend, and now I've found a woman's sock in the laundry!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years. When we met and started hanging out, I learned instantly that he is a flirtatious drunk. He gets VERY friendly, kissing, grabbing, etc. We spent a few months in the beginning "on a break", ...
A. 27 May 2010: Go with your gut instinct girl. If it smells bad it will be bad. I wouldn't hang around to confront him he knows how you feel about this drunken behaviour, enough is enough! Just get on with it and move out.... (read in full...)
I'm too controlling in this relationship, please help!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, since I was 16 and now am 20 going on 21 and we live together now. I have always been "the boss", perhaps I can say... In my relationship! meaning that, its mostly all about me. I am a very bitchy mean ...
A. 27 May 2010: Righto firstly the fact that you have looked at yourself and seen all these things about you is great because you can't change what you don't acknowledge.
Secondly I think you probably need some help with this to examine why you feel the need to b... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with being pregnant...help, its driving me mad!
Q. Hey, I hope you can help me out with my situation. During last summer, I 'thought' I was pregnant with my boyfriend's (now ex's) baby. My periods became abnormally light and irregular, I always felt bloated, felt faint, was urinating more o...
A. 27 May 2010: Having children is great but I wouldn't recommend it if you have no steady partner. It's bloody hard work. It's demanding and thankless and dirty (mud, poo, wee, sick etc) and it's so rentless and TIRING!!! And man all that stuff is hard to deal ... (read in full...)
How do I get over this and just appreciate what I have? I am imagining that he is thinking of others now....
Q. I'm in a great relationship that's going strong after several months. We have good sex and communicate really well, and I'm happy. Yesterday, we were talking about sex and porn, and juicy stuff like that, and my boyfriend asked if I thought about ...
A. 26 May 2010: Yep I read from that statement that he's having the best sex he's ever had too.... (read in full...)
Two years and I still cant make her orgasm....help me someone!
Q. Hey everyone, Well here's the situation, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and im not sure if ive ever really given her a true orgasm... The other day we were completely alone and i set out rose petals, turned on romantic music, ...
A. 26 May 2010: A lot of women (me included) can not have vaginal orgasms. We can only achieve orgasm through clitorial stimulation. Why don't you get her to masturbate in front of you and see how she does it to herself then you'll know how best to stimulate her.... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 26 May 2010: Exactly my point go to the doctor and ask them to refer you to a therapist. Tell your parents you are depressed and you don't really know why. (there are hundreds of people in this situation) You need to be able to talk to someone who is not ... (read in full...)
Desperate for a second chance
Q. I am in need of some desperate advice. Recently my girlfriend and I broke up. We have been together roughly a year. The break up occurred due to a 4 day full blown argument. The argument started for the following subjects; abstinence, friends, ...
A. 26 May 2010: I say keep being her friend, be the best dam friend she's got and she will come around.... (read in full...)
My long distance relationship has reached breaking point, what should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm 23, my girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We've been together 4 years and her communication with me has broken down completely. She's always had 'rules' that I have to follow, like I am not allowed to phone...
A. 26 May 2010: Hey dude you are gonna be ok. Don't analyse yourself too much here because most of us who answered can see that it's her who's got the problem not you. I urge you to join some clubs and take some special interest courses like cooking, books, clay ... (read in full...)
She doesn't think I can change...
Q. Hi im 47 and my ex girlfriend is 55 we were together for 2 years i left a partner and three kids for this lady now she has kicked me out because she felt that i was putting a lot of pressure on her cause we used to argue every weekend because i was ...
A. 26 May 2010: Mmmm that is a tricky one for you! I guess the best thing would be to be very chivalrous. Take her flowers, do things around the house for her without being asked. Take her out for coffee, lunch or dinner spontaneously. Send her a card telling ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 26 May 2010: So lie to your parents. Make up something that is wrong with you that they wont want to verfiy like a discharge from your penis or a urinary infection. Then tell the doctor you have had to lie to your parents and he will have to help you. You ... (read in full...)
Is he shy or do you think he is gay?
Q. Hey guys, Ok so my bf (20) and I (22) have been seeing each other for about three months now. But I can't help but question if he really is gay and not bisexual like he says he is. With in these three months he hasn't tried to make a move sexu...
A. 25 May 2010: It's hard to comment when you don't know a person but my suggestion is to ask him. It may be the push he needs to come out.... (read in full...)
Is she just making assumptions, or could he really be interested in me?
Q. My friend thinks that this guy likes me when I asked her why she came up with a couple of reasons which I don't really think are that relevant but I hope she's right. I am friends with him we hang out in a big group some weekends but I don't really ...
A. 25 May 2010: Well I guess he wouldn't bother to ask about you or comment on your picture if he didn't notice you and the fact that he's obviously noticed you means he must find something about you memorable. Ask your friend for his number and ring him and see ... (read in full...)
My very first date and kiss
Q. Ok so there's this guy...we have both liked each other on and off since we were about six years old...But obviously it has gotten more serious now that were in high school. it has always seemed though that when he likes me he kinda gets shy so then ...
A. 25 May 2010: Let him do the chasing and when the kiss comes you will know what to do kissing is pretty instinctive.... (read in full...)
My long distance relationship has reached breaking point, what should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm 23, my girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We've been together 4 years and her communication with me has broken down completely. She's always had 'rules' that I have to follow, like I am not allowed to phone...
A. 25 May 2010: She's not confused she's just a first class bitch who likes to control everything and everyone around her. She's not good enough for you ditch her and find someone else who will love you properly without rules.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend cheated now I'm wanting her back
Q. "OPs own title" So i have been with my girlfriend for 1 yr 6 months. I honestly thought she was the one, she took me for who i was and put up with my weirdness most the time. We could tell each other anything without judgment. We where very ...
A. 25 May 2010: Block her from your phone she's acting like a physco. She wants to have her cake and eat it too and life just doesn't work like that. You are NOT being selfish by not letting her see the dog you are perfectly within your rights to tell her you ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 25 May 2010: Doctors can't discuss their sessions with anyone else even your parents so they need not find out why you are visiting the doctor.... (read in full...)
"How do I stay just friends with a flirting boy?"
Q. "OPs own title" I am extremely confused at the moment. I have an amazing boyfriend, of 8 months, he is 16 (year older than me) and I love him very much :) However, recently I became friends with a fourteen year old (year younger), who keeps flirting ...
A. 24 May 2010: I would just try to maintain your personal space. If he gets too close move back. This subtly says, "I like you but not that much." If that doesn't work then you may have to be direct and tell him you like him but stop flirting with me.... (read in full...)
She doesn't think I can change...
Q. Hi im 47 and my ex girlfriend is 55 we were together for 2 years i left a partner and three kids for this lady now she has kicked me out because she felt that i was putting a lot of pressure on her cause we used to argue every weekend because i was ...
A. 24 May 2010: You have to prove to her that you can change by being the guy she wants you to be. It takes time you have to put in the hard yards to get results.... (read in full...)
Afraid to let him into my life in case I'm hurt again...
Q. This guy at work he has been sitting across from me all the time during break and he always asks me to go do little things with him. Like dishes or bring laundry to laundry room he always asks me to go and if he bumps into me or sprays me with water ...
A. 24 May 2010: Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all! Let him do the asking and the chasing this time. You can show you are keen by agreeing to do these little things with him but don't you take responsibility for the chasing.
You know... (read in full...)
Too late to end the relationship over cheating?
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me 6 months ago when I went on holiday. I told her I forgave her but the I haven't really felt the same since. She made msn her everynight and told me how much she hated me, and made my whole 2 months miserable. I have re...
A. 24 May 2010: Yes Yes Yes you will find someone else and that person will make you realise what you have been missing. Get rid of this baggage and move on. Be happy life's short!... (read in full...)
Desperate for a second chance
Q. I am in need of some desperate advice. Recently my girlfriend and I broke up. We have been together roughly a year. The break up occurred due to a 4 day full blown argument. The argument started for the following subjects; abstinence, friends, ...
A. 24 May 2010: We've all been hurt by love before but I tend to think she will come round again after she's been by herself for a while. If you keep being there and proving that she can trust you again I think it will all turn around. Just keep being the best ... (read in full...)
Desperate for a second chance
Q. I am in need of some desperate advice. Recently my girlfriend and I broke up. We have been together roughly a year. The break up occurred due to a 4 day full blown argument. The argument started for the following subjects; abstinence, friends, ...
A. 24 May 2010: You know the power of sorry often works wonders. You could try asking her to come out with you because you want to appologise and beg her forgiveness. If she doesn't agree I think the only thing you can do is tell her how sorry you are and that ... (read in full...)
Why isn't this working?
Q. I posted my situation on here a few months ago. I had broken up with my boyfriend of a little over a month. I accused him of still liking his ex. Unfortunately he was very upset that I thought that and he said he needed space. Well, I gave him space ...
A. 24 May 2010: Ok doll stop the txting and ask him face-to-face "where are we going dude? What am I to you? What do you see in our future?" You have to know one way or the other and this is the only way to find out. Good luck hope it works out the way you want ... (read in full...)
Too late to end the relationship over cheating?
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me 6 months ago when I went on holiday. I told her I forgave her but the I haven't really felt the same since. She made msn her everynight and told me how much she hated me, and made my whole 2 months miserable. I have re...
A. 24 May 2010: God she sounds like a total bitch. Why is she making you msn her and then telling you she hates you?? Mate you deserve better than this!!! Leave her asap and find someone who will treat you like a prince. She's not worthy of your love.... (read in full...)
My husband loves bj's but I don't like the taste
Q. My husband loves bjs. What guy doesn't right? Well, I hate the taste of sperm, I mean I really hate it, but I adore my husband. I went online to find spermicide free condoms to see if maybe giving him a bj with out tasting it would leave us both ...
A. 24 May 2010: Oh doll I totally agree. Sperm is the most revolting tasting substance I've ever put in my mouth!! I'm with Chigirl don't let him cum in your mouth. Give him a decent BJ and then finish him off in some other creative way. :-)
Good luck doll.... (read in full...)
Did any get on me?
Q. Okay, well today me and my boyfriend had sex. We used a condom and all, but before he was getting ready to come he pulled out. But when he pulled out the condom broke. And then about five seconds after he pulled out he started to come. This is a ...
A. 23 May 2010: Listen I think you will be ok, but it may pay to go to a clinic and get a test done just in case. Pleased to hear you are using protection big thumbs up just concerned about your age, 13-15 is pretty young to have a sexual relationship. Be careful ... (read in full...)
Dating: what to do and how to do it
Q. So, there is this guy I like, or I guess you could say I wanna get to know. He's on the popular side and im kinda the normal side. Im not ugly, people tell me im pretty a lot. Since schools ending and summer is comming up, I kinda wanna ask him to ...
A. 23 May 2010: No do it face to face. Just say "hey I heard this movie is really good and I'm going with my friend. I'd love you to join us, would you be keen?" Say it as cooly as you can. Good luck with this.... (read in full...)
Am I being too jelous and insecure?
Q. im 31 years old i have been in love with my partner since i was 16 ( he was my first love but we only went out for a year then our lives went on different paths ) so after we broke up i was truly devastated and pined after him for many years ..... ...
A. 23 May 2010: Oh boy relationships are tricky old things. Here's my thoughts for you sweet. First I think he is being a bit of a shit with some of the things he is saying and I would be hurt by some of them too. In saying that though your pregnancy could be ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's cheating on me while away?
Q. We've been together for almost 4 years but the last 2 years were spent away from each other since he's now residing in England. He came home for vacation just last January and stayed for a month. A few weeks after he left I found out I was pregnant. ...
A. 23 May 2010: Facebook seems to cause more problems between people than any other contact medium.
I've been pregnant 3 times so I can speak with authority when I say that pregnancy does stuff to your head! All those hormones running round in your body makes you ... (read in full...)
Why does he want to meet in person for something that could be handled by email?
Q. Does he still care? Why is he doing this? me and my ex split up 3 month ago a lot was said and done to the point of we couldn't talk with out arguing. at the time of us splitting we worked together and for 2 weeks he had to b in the same ro...
A. 23 May 2010: I wouldn't try to analyse his reasons for wanting to do it face to face too much. You will soon know what his reasons were as I'm sure he will say something.
Listen it takes two to tango. There are ALWAYS two sides to a story so don't take all ... (read in full...)
I just want to be together with him
Q. im with my bf from 5 yrs. he is doing a tough job, n cudnt find time to spend with me. we meet once a week and that lead to sex. he also calls me once a day, but he says he loves me, im gettin really frustrated and feel ignored al the time. he never ...
A. 23 May 2010: I think you need to tell him how you feel. To him having sex probably feels like the best way to spend your precious time together so it's up to you to educate him in what you need to make you feel loved and happy.... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't like it because I say what is on my mind
Q. My husband say's I'm mental because I say what's on my mind and if something is bothering me in our relationship. How can a person change there ways for the good of there relationship? Let the past go and live for what they have now, forget the ...
A. 23 May 2010: You're right he's wrong. Does his family talk about things?? I bet they don't which is why he finds it so hard. Keep doing it regardless of what he says and show him this answer. Even if he doesn't respond at least you are getting it off your ... (read in full...)
All I want is to feel special and loved
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years he is 22 and I am 21. He has never been an extremely affectionate person but lately he hasn't been affectionate at all or anything. He recently started working 2 jobs so all he does is work and ...
A. 23 May 2010: I think he's so tired he can hardly function. Why does he need two jobs?? If this doesn't change I would consider moving on. Life is too short to spend it with someone who makes you unhappy. You deserve to be with someone who helps you love ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps contacting me but behaves very distant.
Q. Me and my ex have been broken up now for 2 1/2 months. 3 1/2 weeks after establishing NC she contacts me telling me she's been thinking about me constantly and has been missing me incredibly. Well I kept my guard up by not acting desperate and ...
A. 23 May 2010: I think you need to say to her "Look what's going on here? I want to get back together with you but I can't figure out what you want from me. Where are we headed?" At least then you will know whether to continue to try and figure this out. It's ... (read in full...)
My long distance relationship has reached breaking point, what should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm 23, my girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We've been together 4 years and her communication with me has broken down completely. She's always had 'rules' that I have to follow, like I am not allowed to phone...
A. 21 May 2010: You are the guy for whom so many people are hanging out for. Kind, decent, caring and loyal and I bet good looking to boot. Kick this girl to the curb she DOES NOT deserve you!!! There is someone else out there who will treat you like a prince, ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend cheated now I'm wanting her back
Q. "OPs own title" So i have been with my girlfriend for 1 yr 6 months. I honestly thought she was the one, she took me for who i was and put up with my weirdness most the time. We could tell each other anything without judgment. We where very ...
A. 21 May 2010: Totally understand how you are feeling. What a bitch! Try to turn your feelings into grieving for the lost opportunity rather than grieving over her. She isn't worth it.
Don't lose faith there are other females out there who will not treat you ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 6 May 2010: Again I repeat keep away from him. He's confused and it's making him unsure how to react. May I suggest you make friends with some girls. Unlike males (not meaning to male bash here) we like to talk. We like to analyse situations from every ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 20 April 2010: Just back off from him completely and let him come back to you in his own time. Like it or not he feels uncomfortable now and he needs to deal with that in his own time and in his own way. You just need to carry on as per usual and wait ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 20 April 2010: Sorry mate but your thinking is a little off here. You have no right to be angry at him. He said straight out at the beginning that he was not attracted to you and was straight. You need to put yourself in his shoes and realise that whether you ... (read in full...)
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