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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I tell him about the baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend was married and i finished it for that reason, i was just lonely after my husband died, i have now met somebody that is single and we have been going out for 5 months and i decided not to tell him about my married ex boyfriend, we ...

I'm married and have a strong emotional attachment to a co-worker. How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I apologize in advance for the length and breadth of this posting, as it's going to be quite a novel. I've been going through a self-inflicted emotional turmoil for about two years or so now and I've not shared it with anyone close to me because I'm ...

I'm starting to wonder if he ever loved me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - how do you know if your man really loves you? i spent 12 years of my life tryin to figure out if mine loves me. mybe its because we started dating young.( 15 years old) and was each others first love, he is 28 now when do good guys get married? he ...

Am I gay, bi, straight, or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. I need your opinions. A year ago i started *asturbating on gay porn, I wasnt really attracted to guys, I just wanted to see it. And me, stupid idiot, kept doing it, cos I thought "Ah So what, I can stop anytime". I also did it on some ...

How do I move on from the affair I had?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my now husband since I was a teenager. We got engaged my first year of college. He had joined the military, and was stationed outside of the continental united states for 3 years. During this time, I had a relationship with another ...

Why do I keep thinking of him, dreaming of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I don't know if I am at right place to seek advice. I don't know where to start from, to explain my issue. So I writing every thing in detail. Sorry for the long long story. OK. I am 24 yr old Hindu gal and the guy I have issue ...

Am I now gay instead of bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Help!!!!! Right, i have had feelings for boys for two years now and thought i was bisexual however i havent been able to get a boner over a girl for about 2 weeks but i have easily over boys. help!? Please! I think i may be properly gay instead of ...

What am I doing wrong and how do I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I'm convinced there are people in this world that just aren't meant to develop relationships with significant others or ever maintain healthy ones... me being one of those people. I'm 24 and I have never had a boyfriend, and if one more person ...

Is there a middle ground where I can be the pleasant girl he fell in love with but make sure he knows he needs to get on top of things if he wants to keep me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. For the first year, we rarely ever fought, and when we did it was nothing too serious. For the last six months things have been a lot more rocky (though we've had our ups as well). I...

What is a fair amount to pay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - My boyfriend has recently moved in with me and we're having a hard time deciding how much is an appropriate amount to pay in rent each month. We live in the house that I already own. I make about $17,000 more per year than he does and about $4,000 ...

I'm bi. My loving man accepts my needs. But now I'm in love with a woman. Out of my mind with guilt. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hi Aunties I came her for some advice about guilt and love. I'm married to a good man for 22 years. we have 5 children and all but 2 of them are off to college. My husband treats us good. He's a good father and husband. He's always put us before ...

I like him, but I'm worried about his ex gf. Should I back away or try to go exclusively with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I am seeing this guy I really like. But his ex gf used to be one of my best friends a until a few years ago. They broke up around 2 months ago. She put him through hell. She'd become very paranoid and jealous. She once snogged a guy who had eyes for ...