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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How do I stop being in love with a married man????????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I met a guy through work, he has his own company and so do I. We ended up meeting on a business trip two years ago and the affair started. He chased me and broke me down until I couldn't resist him any more. It was not about sex as we had many ...

Should I hold on to her? Even if our relationship time is limited?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I just need advice. Ok, so here's what's going on. I'm pretty much in my first real relationship, the girl I'm going with is great. But recently, she told me she plans on keeping her virginity until she's married which is a bit of a bummer because...

Does it hurt the children more to grow up in a divorced home or an unhappy one with the parents together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I was engaged to my ex for 5 years. We ended up breaking up for a stupid reason and I didn't contact him for months. He ended up sleeping with a girl and getting her pregnant after the break up. I found out later. We spoke and texted everyday and ...

I was RAPED 4 years ago, how do I tell my boyfriend our son ISN'T his???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I was raped four years ago, and my in these past few weeks thing are being revealed to me. I have seen this man again after all these years and my 4 year old son is his spitting image. I never told anyone I was raped except my sister. How do I tell ...

Soon to be divorced man wants to marry me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - A couple of months ago I contacted a friend who lives in a state I also lived in some years ago. We had not talked in 4 years. I called him to say hello, and to share good news about a family member who is involved in the same career as my friend. ...

I slept with my boss, should I resign?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I´ve been really,really stupid. Last week, after a business meeting, he offered me a ride home. We had been flirting about a month. In the car we started to kiss and he invited me to his home, because his wife was out of town. We had quite a lot of ...

Would you tell a co workers wife that her husband has been unfaithful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Would you inform a co workers wife that her husband has been unfaithful to her? However, this comes from someone who has been cheated on before so there is an obvious bias. Should the wife be informed? I really don't know what to think, m...

Should I tell my mom my brother's taking drugs???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I NEED HELP!!! This has really nothing to do with relationships, but my mom asked me to find out whether or not my older brother is doing drugs(he is). She is worried about him and wants to know what's going on. Now I told her that's unfair to ask m...

Been together 10 years but he said he'll NEVER tie the knot...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I am a 25 year old female. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. We have a 8 year old daughter together. When we first meet we began shopping for wedding rings. He told me he wants me to have the best. Now later down the line he has said ...

Mother in law is slowly dying and do not know how to cope with her...

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16 February 2009 (F) - My mother in law has a dehabilitating illness that will eventually kill her, there is no known cure and her condition has gotton extremely bad. It is now to the stage that she falls over about 4 times a day in her house. She would then either call ...

2 men... only one heart.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I really need advice, my chilhood sweetheart and I had a son whom is now 6 years old, I am now married to another man and my ex works away we usually keep in contact via text or pm etc, he has recently told me him and his wife are getting a divorce ...

My room mate also happens to be my ex husband and my boyfriend finds that difficult...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I have an interesting situation in my life, and not sure how to help my boyfriend understand it. I have a roommate - who also happens to be my ex hubby. I AM divorced from him. We have been the best of friends since we were 16 (both in our mid to ...

Need some advice for my mess and his cheating......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Can you advice me? I am at the breaking point cos I don't know what else I can do. Let me explain it to you. I am a deaf mum of 1 kid and live with my hearing partner of 4 years. We are in mid 30's. Since I discovered that he's been cheating on me ...