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writes:HelloI dont know if im bisexual and it worries and scares me so much. I know im not gay, but Im scared to experiment - would my friends hate me or think im gross? what if I am bi? And within a heterosexual relationship I will regret or miss the fact I have no female sex? I am ashamed scared and confused of my apparent longstanding curiosity for women! (i have fantasised about females since i was a child) What do i do? i am VERY angsty about this and its getting me down Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): It depends on your friends. If they are good friends and have known you for a while, you'd be surprised by their answer. I told my best friends I was Bi a year ago. A few I hadn't known long said it was 'ok'. My best friend for 9 years told me it was cool. she didn't care. Alot of people know a days don't care. It's becoming a normal thing. Don't feel ashamed. If your a teen, it may pass. It's normal to go through that kind of thinking. If your sure your Bi, embrase it. If it doesn't work out. Smile. At least you tried. Your best friends will always be there for you though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2007): Hi! if your true friends think that if your gross cause of that, than are they really your friends? Im bisexual and have been this way ever scense i was a child.. there are so many people out there that care and want to be there for you! Now you would'nt want the regret with no female sex! your whole life would ya? The best thing to do is find out the truth about your self! either way someone is out there waiting to put a smile on your face!! I hope u can find the answer for what ever it is!!!!!!
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reader, girlyla +, writes (24 March 2007):
girlyla is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey tbh this thing is about self acceptance, being accepted by others, and about taking life as it comes. thanks for that advice :) its brilliant. yeah ive mentioned me finding girls attractive to a coupla mates and they dont care! ive never wanted to date a girl - but it doesnt matter. im not who i like i am who i am! i know my sexuality is not important on the huge scheme of things and is low on the list atm, but its something i am obsessing with necessarily. any tips on stopping obsessing lol
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reader, justice123  +, writes (24 March 2007):
i have to tell you this from where im standing it seems as if you are not bi- sexual but a lesbian if you have real friends then they wont judge you they'll still be friends with you and love you so yes its safe to tell them...
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reader, chachacha +, writes (24 March 2007):
Your friends won't hate you or think you're gross.
Don't worry about this. Take life as it comes.
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
 Hey there,
How good are your friends? if your friends are very understanding and respect you for who you are then i do not see why they would take you being bisexual in a bad way. They might perhapse be worried that you might have feelings for them, so you need to reasure them that you dont if this is the case.
Do not worry about your sexuality, you are you and that is why people like you, as long as you are a nice, genuin person (which you sound like you are) then your sexuality is not an issue.
Make sure you are certain though before teeling people and tell them out of need not out of attention.
If you have doubts that your friends judge you then perhapse they are not brillant mates.
Gd luk with it all but remeber who you are, not who you like :D
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