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Having sex with my bf hurts a lot...what can I do?

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Question - (23 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi guys..I've been with my boyfriend now for six months and I've told him that I love him and hes said that he loves me. Our relationship is fine in every way except for sex. I've been with other men before including a man with a 9" penis and enjoyed sex, but with my boyfriend I've found it painful and uncomfortable. His penis does not go into a bend or any other problem like that. The first time we had sex was fine, but after that I got an anal fischer, so I was out of action for a while, but the problem is cured now and although I enjoy the sex we do have, it is virtually always uncomfortable. Also, I'm not used to being the giver and after trying it found it wasn't very pleasing for either of us. I don't want to lose him as hes the most important thing in my life, but I also want a sex life with him, any ideas how to help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007):

you know what you need to do for a little bit is take a break from sex if its hurting and maybe go to your doctor. if your boyfriend loves you he'll understand. anyways I just found this web site i want to you check out it might help you its http://www.talksexwithsue.com/index2.html

you may have heard of sue johansen she can pretty much answer any questions about sex trust me

good luck xox

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007):

well girl let me tell you like this you need to try yoga classes or go to walmart and buy a yoga or pilates tape to losen up your muscles. it will make sex incredibly great and it doesnt matter how his penis is made at all.

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