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writes:Basically, I think I am in love.I know, I will probably get a lot of people saying you're not, but I think I am. The guy whom I like is a younger than me, and in the year below me at school. I get butterflies around him, and the thing is, I really want to tell him I like him.It's really hard to though. I feel so nervous when I'm about to tell him. That's just one part of the problem, another is that I'm worried if I did tell him, it would ruin our friendship and he would tell a load of people.So, any help? Reply to this Question
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reader, YerMum +, writes (3 July 2008):
YerMum is verified as being by the original poster of the question I was going to tell him on the final day of school, so then he might forget about it during the holidays.And thanks for the help.
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reader, Gabbiee. +, writes (2 July 2008):
 Sounds like love too me (:, Well at first just act like you dont love this kidd so you wont be nervous around him then and let your relationship grow, and if you do manage too tell him and he tells everybody then im not sure that he's the type of guy you want to be in love with isit?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): Wow, sounds like you really like him. Well if you really do then it shouldn't matter that he would tell people, if you decide to tell him. Maybe you should tell him, but make sure you remain friends and nothing goes awkward if anything doesn't go according to plan he may need some space afterwards, you might as well, but you should definatly try to remain friends no matter what happens, even if you get together, that may sound weird but it does have a bit of logic to it, also maybe you could talk to a friend you really trust not to tell, and see what they think of it, basically it's up to you, if you like him then maybe you should tell him, it's better than wondering if everything would have turned out____________. Hopefully it won't ruin your friendship and everything will work out OK, good luck
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