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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Had sex with a friend, now developing into more. He used a condom for the first time, but didnt 'finish' and the second time was without one, where he didnt either.I got my period 5 days later. I have had cramps for 3 days (before, first day and now still). I started going on the pill, taking my first diane 35 pill on the first day of my period, is that causing cramps to be worse maybe? My period is normal otherwise as in how heavy/light it is. I seem to have slight urinary tract infection though.Im so worried about the cramps/gasyness just not going away yet, they have been better/worse but ongoing since the day after the sex.Please help me with wtf is going on with me, is it exam stress too? :(Is this normal, am I screwed...?wanting to be a guy atm _
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reader, person12345  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 This post is all over the place, I'm not quite sure where to start. One, don't have sex without a condom unless you're on the pill. Good call not having him finish when you were totally unprotected. Two, when you do have a condom, it's perfectly alright for him to finish inside you. Three, cramps for three days is normal. Four, I don't think the pill is causing the cramps, especially not so soon after starting to take it. Five, Now that you are on the pill, since you started the first day of your period, you're protected and no longer need the condom and he can finish inside you even without a condom. Six, cramps are normal. Gassiness is normal. Menstrual things can cause your digestive tract to be a little weird, or you may have eaten something that causes gas. The cramps may be caused by the gas. The gas and cramps are normal and have nothing to do with sex or the pill. Exam stress can make gassiness and cramps worse. Why would you think you're screwed? What exactly are you worried is going on? Sounds like you have some cramps cause you're on your period and you're a bit gassy, probably from stress.
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