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writes: Hey, I feel that my boyfriend is no longer interested in me. Sometimes I don't do the things he wants in bed, I am conscious about my body and I'm not confident when it comes to getting undressed. This sounds pathetic, but I rang him a few mins ago and he was in the pub. He normally takes me with him, but this time he didn't even tell me he was going. Please can I have some advice on how I can get him interested again? Before I was leading the relationship, choosing when I needed a break, but I feel he took this the wrong way too. Thanks for your time x anna
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2005): Well the obvious answer is that the two of you need to work on your communication skills. You two need to discuss your issues and insecurities. Also, the fact that you were "in control" of the relationship, does not allude to a very healthy one. It should be a partnership, not a control issue.As to your concerns that your boyfriend is losing interest simply because you're not comfortable doing everything he wishes in bed. There are many answers to this. My first reaction is to don't be afraid to try new things, and a woman who's wild in bed, but maybe doesn't have the best body is always much sexier than a woman with a perfect body who is mild in the bedroom. But if your boyfriend is pushing your limits, and getting into some desires that truly make you feel uncomfortable, you did right to refuse and if he truly cares for you, he'll respect your decision. If he doesn't, then I suggest you find someone who does.
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