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Worried because my g/f is spending more time talking to her abusive ex...

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Question - (8 April 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2005)
A , *laze666 writes:

My girlfriend left a violent relationship about 4 months ago and went straight into a relationship with me. We are both very much in love with each other, but for the last 2 weeks I have noticed a change in her.

She is having a go at me over the slightest thing, and I'm getting worried that something is wrong. She has also been talking to her ex partner a lot more than usual. I'm scared that she is having an affair or she is going to leave me and I don't want to lose her. What can I do?

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A reader, REBECCA +, writes (14 April 2005):

Hi

I know what it feels like to be in a violent relationship I was forever looking over my shoulder when we split up.

I think that because she was the victim as such she doesn't want that happening again so she has become more aggressive!

In all honesty you have to sit down and explain how you feel when she shouts at you and ask her if she really cares about you or herself? If so, please don't speak to her ex anymore.

You have got to decide if you want a third person in your relationship because she hasn't cut the ties with the ex yet! Going from a violent relationship straight into another is not good for either of you! Unfortunately you might have to say him or me! Sorry

Take Care

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