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Worried I don't last long enough with my girl

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Question - (4 January 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2005)
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Iam 20 years old in a long term relationship. My girl and I have finally had sex after about 4 years. its been hard to hold back all that time. We were bth virgins and finally we both have shared our virginity.

The first 3 or 4 times we had sex i was able to last about 30 to 40 minutes. She recently moved two states away and havn't seen each other for about two weeks until this past weekend. Of course after two long weeks the first thing we did was to have sex.

I was shocked that i came after 5 min. Later that day we again had sex and came after about 10 min. Iam wondering why I come that fast when the first time I lasted longer than this. The weird was the I still had an erection and after coming I continued to have sex for about another 10 min. After that I rested for about 5 min and went at it again, but this time it took me longer to come. Maybe 30-40 min later i came. I am just worried about having some kind of health problem for not lasting like i did the first time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2005):

Congratulations! You're living through your sexual prime, and you don't even realize it! In just a few years from now, you'll be longing to perform like you do now, so enjoy this time with your girl friend while it lasts. Part of the fun is trying your best to hold back, but sometimes the excitement and new experience just forces a quick release. Laugh it off with your girl friend, and spend some time kissing her. You might keep your erection, or get a new one and begin again.

I remember my first girl friend would get me off orally, and then after a few minutes I would get hard again so that she could have her fun, not worrying about me finishing too quickly. Believe me, there is nothing wrong with you....enjoy your abilities now, since it is a very fleeting time in your life!

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