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writes:I'm a 14 year old gay guy and there's this guy in my class that i have a crush on But i can't tell if he's gay or not or most importantly does he like me or not?Okay so he is not very girly, but has best friend who's openly gay.And he plays soccer so i am not sure if he's gay or not.A part of him looks gay, he wears pink, a part of him doesnt. Now about that, if likes me, or not,i am not sure at all.Sometimes he looks at me,follows me or i jus catch him staring other times he jus ignores me.Well once he started an online conversation with me about some science homework. i answered him but it didn't go anywhere from there.How do i make sure if hes gay or not and whether he's into me or not without actually asking!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): Being gay at your age is something you have to be really careful about. It's good that you're open about your sexuality, and have the confidence to live your life. But bare in mind people, especially kids, are evil.
There are several ways to spot a gay guy. The voice, the walk, the dress sense - but these things don't automatically make you gay. The only way to know for sure is to ask. Better yet flirt with him - see if it gets you anywhere.
And when I say flirt, I don't mean lay it all out. I mean just be nice to him. Offer him a pencil during an exam - hang out at lunch one time, just the two of you if possible. Good luck!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 Ahem! What does soccer have to do with it...? :P
If I were you I'd get your friends to ask him, but if he's not openly gay already then there really isn't much you can do about it. Otherwise, just keep talking to him or looking at him for longer than normal then see how he reacts would be my advice.
Good-luck :)
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