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writes:my boyfriend says he's confused about our relationship and needs time alone, we've been together a year now and i love him so much. Will this lead to a break-up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): I think unless there is further reason for him to need to think and spend time alone then if thing havnt been great between you then he may need to reconsider his commitment to you. If things between you have been normal, then maybe you are reading into this too much and he actually does just need some time alone.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (13 October 2007):
 If this is all he is telling you, he is a bit vague.
I know of many relationships that have had similar circumstances. In most cases that is just what they need. Just a little time to get their head on straight. Give it a little time and see where it goes. I don't think at this point you have too much to worry about. Doc
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reader, rcn +, writes (13 October 2007):
 There's not enough information to answer this question.
Has he discussed with you what might be confusing him? Is it something that deals directly with you? Is it personal insecurity? There could be so many reasons why someone needs time. Without having more information, I couldn't make an opinion on breaking up or just taking some time.
I'd ask the right questions, you deserve to know what's going on.
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