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writes:I need to know where am standing ?will an abusive ex bf who is possessive and obsessed of being wid call after slapping me this time and spit on my face ?he violated a restrained order once and my dad trials to ask him stay away from failed ..each time he ruin every chance of us being together by doing an stupid thing with knowledge he has anger management issues and lately he calls me name when we fight like b**** etcand when i leave him he starts call again and beg and cry like crazy and would not stop calling or coming to my place till this time i said i wont be with you anymore and he lost his temper to slap and spit on me and he said he doesn't want to see me anymore even though i never call him when we break up he is the one who is always calling and begging so does that mean he will call again to start that begging period ? it has been few days now he didn't call yet each time he ruin it he disappear for couple of months the max was 2 months so will he try again ? im fed up plz i need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot for your helpful answers
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (9 April 2011):
 He will do as all abusers do, try and try to win you back. It is a game and currently, though you have left, I think you are still a part of it. He will try to win you back so that he can destroy you again, pushing you to your limits. I suspect he will call again with some sort of carelessly concocted excuse, maybe a week from now or even a few years. If not, good for you, you have escaped! If he does, just ignore him and stay away from him.I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah he sent a message after 10 days asking where are his stuffs and that he came twice to ask the security about them cause i told him never to call again and i will put his stuffs at security ( it were just a lighter and old slippers),,i didnt reply back and he didnt call so that means he will call again ?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (9 April 2011):
Enforce that restraining order. Call the police the next time he comes near you. Abusers go through a cycle, they unleash their rage upon you and then they try and get you back. Yes he will try again and again and again until he finds someone new. Just try to stay away from him.
I hope that helps.
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