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writes:Hello everyone, this is a (long) situation I am in and I am looking for opinions. I am 19 years old and my boyfriend just turned 25. We have been dating for almost a year. He has been with 6 women, and he is my first real boyfriend (I use the word "real" meaning we are exclusive, and I have had sex with him, he was/is my first). He told me he loved me, a month after dating and says that I am 'the one'. I do love him, but it bothers me that he has slept with 6 other people before he met me. At this point of our relationship, he is talking about engagement and marriage, in a few years, after I graduate college. I am all for the idea because I love him and I he treats me like a queen. The only "problem" is my family, my mom says I will regret not dating other people in the long run...do you think she is right? Or could I be truly happy (I dont want to be divorced at 25)?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2006): i am in a simular situation, im 20 and my bfs 25 and he has had a few long term relationships before, he was with his ex for 2 1/2 yrs and was living with her! and i find it so hard 2 cope with because my longest relationship has been only 1 1/2 years. My bfs alwayz telling me im "the one" and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me... i think you should go with your instincts, if you think you want to experience more in life then its up 2u, but you dont want to end up cheating, but if he is the rite guy for you, stay with him, if uno he loves you and you love him then jus be together and stay happy. good luck.
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reader, cupid helper +, writes (7 August 2006):
you seem to be having a great relationship with this guy he treats you right and is trying to make you a fruture you dont get many men like that enjoy it and dont worrie. hope this helps
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