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Should I move on or wait for him???

Q.   Ok.. well i've been talking to this guy for about a year and a half, but we havent "technically" became more than friends. I had a boyfriend for about a year during the time we knew each other, but me and him always had a connection and had feelings ...

A.   18 August 2006: i think this lad has had bad relationships before hand and is scard of another incase it ends out bad. you should sit this lad down and have a chat tel him how you feel and make him understand and then ask him if he wants anythink more and if he ... (read in full...)

Will I regret not dating other guys?

Q.   Hello everyone, this is a (long) situation I am in and I am looking for opinions. I am 19 years old and my boyfriend just turned 25. We have been dating for almost a year. He has been with 6 women, and he is my first real boyfriend (I use the word ...

A.   7 August 2006: you seem to be having a great relationship with this guy he treats you right and is trying to make you a fruture you dont get many men like that enjoy it and dont worrie. hope this helps... (read in full...)

What can I say in a text to grab the attention of the boy I like?

Q.   i really want this boy to text me back who i did go out with. he rings me sometimes but i dont hear the phone ring so i miss him. hw can i grab his attention in a text message for him to text me back? what can i say? help please its urgent...

A.   7 August 2006: bring back old memmeries of when you to was going out like the good times you had ask him if he wants to meet up so you can chat about it. hope it helps... (read in full...)

I lie a lot and it affects us

Q.   I need help learning how to get my girlfriend of a year and a month's trust back. You see I am a chronic liar,I tell lies over things like seeing old female friends on the street (Non romantic) friends and calling them to see if they want to meet ...

A.   6 August 2006: you sound like you really love her and lies are bad cause i have done it my self you can stop you just got to try it helps when you think of why your not lieing your doing it for her so your doing it for someone. which makes it easyier.stop with the ... (read in full...)

He is very controlling!

Q.   ive got problems with my relationship - there are trust issues from my boyfriends side and he is now constantly questioning me and checking up on me by ringing my phone sometimes every hour asking the same questions - a month ago things got so bad ...

A.   6 August 2006: yes some men are controlling and that needs to be sorted.sit down and tel him how you feel about it.if you love him that much maybe you should get rid of your phone you have got to think what is more important.dont let him do what he is doing. does ... (read in full...)

I trusted my girlfriend not to play around when we were together, but now she's travelling and it plays on my mind!

Q.   Hello everyone, My girlfriend of four months has recently gone travelling. This was a trip she had planned before we met, so it's not something we could do together. I know she has had many more sexual partners than me, and she openly tells me...

A.   6 August 2006: i no what your going throw because i have been throw it myself and its not nice i no.but you not trusting her must hurt her. let her no how you feel and sit down and chat about it.im sure you can sort it out.if you both love each other and want to ... (read in full...)

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