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writes:Okay so I'm 18 and I met this 38 year old at my cousin's job. Age in relationships never bothers me to begin with and after we hung out for the first time I already started to see that I liked him. We've been "together" for about a month and a half. We talk everyday and see each other like every other day. He always jokes around and calls me his girlfriend or his wife but he hasn't actually asked me out yet, although we only see each other. I really like him and from what he tells me and I see he really likes me too. What gives? Will it be like this forever or does anyone thing he'll eventually make it "official"?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 I am not sure I understand what you mean. You have been together for 1 and a half month, but he has not asked out yet ?...how does this work ? Are you just platonic friends for now ? Or FWB ?
Anyway, whatever the situation is, I think he may be hesitating because of your age. You don't have a problem with a 20 year age difference, but maybe he does- at least in terms of LTRs.
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reader, ShauniePrawnie  +, writes (24 September 2010):
I'm in the same boat as you, I like a guy older than me and I'm fairly positive he knows it. He's flirty and cute but I always wait for him to make the move. That is why we're not dating. I think if you want to make this official you should ask him out! Just meet him over a cup of tea and let your feelings be known. x
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reader, Red591 +, writes (24 September 2010):
 age may not mean anything to you but I bet a million bucks it does to him. He may very well like you but he would be made fun and outcasted for dating a girl young enough to be his daughter. Its not something every guy is willing to tolerate. You are best to find someone closer to your age and is into the same stuff as you. You have a lot of "wild" left to live and his "wild" is over. Trust me, If you dated, it would probably not work out. I never say never but I would really look for a younger guy
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