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Will first time sex hurt if you've been fingered?

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Question - (31 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If you've gotten fingered and it didnt hurt at all, will it hurt when you have sex for the firs time?

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A male reader, Been there, Done that United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2009):

It really does depend on the person.

It may hurt for some and may not hurt for others.

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A female reader, MinnieM United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2009):

Possibly yes, if your hymen is still intact & you haven't yet had full penetrative sex then it more than likely will hurt somewhat, good news is it doesn't last long.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009):

There's no way to tell. It's different from being fingered. It may have broken your hymen, which would help but you also may have broken it before, or been born without one. There are other things you can do to get ready for sex though. But, if you're not ready for it, then you should wait. Don't go for it until you're ready for it, and for any consequences that may happen if something goes wrong. Use protection and make sure you're sure you're ready.

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