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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I’ve been with my husband for 3 years, but married for 1 year. During the 1st 6months to a year of our relationship things were great but then my ex husband caused lots of problems for us. So for the past 2 years we have had a rocky relationship. I have fears my husband is cheating, he even told me one day during a heated argument that he had but after we made up he said he lied he had never cheated he just said that to get me to shut up. Ok yes there is a 12 year difference in our age, (he is 12 years older), but he never wants to have sex. It’s gotten so bad (I've never cheated) but I'm close to viewing porn just to get satisfied, I also purchased some toys he don’t know about. I’m never going to cheat but I feel like porn is a form of cheating so I don’t want to do that. But anyways I am a very sexual person, I could have sex every day at least 3times a day or more. Hell I would settle for 1 time a month but we don’t have sex that often. I try to start something but he is always making up excuses to stop. So I am very worried he is getting it some where else or he just isn’t in to me. What should I do? I’m so confused and lonely. I really need help. Can you help me? Should I divorce him? Is he cheating? How can I get satisfied other than doing it my self?
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