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writes:hi this is based on my mate I'm really worried about her.She's recently been linked back to her old ex the father of her daughter I'll call marc they had been split for 10 months, anyway there not actually going out together but are seeing how they get on when they are together, anyway her just recently split bf keeps ringing her all the time,anyway last nite he rang her and said that he was coming around to get his stuff,anyway on the phone she said to him i love you when father of her daughter marc was there she never says it to him, anyway i found out the recent ex spent the nite over her flat last nite she said they never sleept together but i dont know if i belive her anymore she said she would never get back to him but then why did he stay over last nite,?Meanwhile marc the guy shes trying to work it out with found out and hes really bitter about it,the thing is i think she doesnt want marc back but she doent want no over girl to have her as he wont be at her beken call all the time.What advice can I give her, or does anyone think I'm right why would he sleep over of they didn't sleep together?
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reader, didda123 +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Who knows whether they slept together that is their business but my guess is that they did - time will tell.
It could have just been a one off spontaneous thing that happened when he came over or maybe trying to keep him just because she wants no one else to have him as you said but that is no way to go on. She will have to realise that he has a life as well and she must let him move on and find someone else who he can share his love with.
Maybe her heart really lies with the father of her daughter and she was trying to make him jealous by saying 'i love you' to her ex boyfriend.
The only advice you could give her is to seriously think things through and if she thinks that she can make a go of it with her daughter's father then she will have to cut all ties with her ex boyfriend and let him go for good.
I take it he has moved his stuff out now so that is a good start.
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