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female
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anonymous
writes:So... I met a guy on the internet. We decided to meet in real life, and we ended up having a good time. The date lasted for about 4 hours and it felt like we were flirting and had something to talk about the whole time.Then, when I got home I saw an email saying "so how was it?" or something to that effect. I sent back a simple email saying I had fun and wanted to meet again if he wanted to. And now... no reply!What do you think? Did I read him wrong and he actually wasn't having a good time? Why would he send me an email almost immediately after and then ignore me?
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (9 June 2009):
Why do people always say that women are difficult? I think men are the stranger species. I think that he enjoyed his date with you and that's why he sent you an email. Him not replying is him being a guy. He may be just into dating around right now and will probably call you eventually. But if it's been a few weeks, I think it would be safe to say he's moved on. But in the meantime, definitely don't wait for him. Go on other dates, forget about him. If he comes around, he comes around. You may find someone way better while he's off being an idiot.
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reader, poppie-lovey +, writes (8 June 2009):
Ad wait a week or 2 (Depending on your patience) Then if still no reply then sorry hun but hes moved on. He must have enjoyed the date otherwise he wouldnt have sent that email he sounded eager too talk too you again xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): To be honest I think he moved on... we all tend to date more than one in the begining... I think you should cut your losses and move on.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): honey did you let him have it too early? If so, dat's wrong..It's always good to let a man dream of somthing before he can get it..next time play hard to get.
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