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writes: I give my long-term bf oral almost every day, but I only really get oral once a week maybe.. He does it so well and I love it, he knows i do, but he just never gives me it as often as i'd like..He knows I like it. I've tried stopping giving him oral too, but i just love pleasing him and love giving him it. i dont really wanna ask him incase he has a reason why he doesnt really do it. Plus, i would find it hard to do that 'favour swapping' thing, what do i do? Please help, thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Susan Strict  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 As Namatjira said, first you must make sure he really does understand how much you love it. Some men really don't like doing it, but you said that he's very good at it and I think that really would not be the case if he didn't like it.
Now - be careful with this one (but it always worked for me when I was younger - and still does!): ORDER him to do it. As I said - be careful. Some men don't like being ordered around in the bedroom (or anywhere else), but some (many) absolutely love it. I'm not suggesting you start getting really kinky or anything (not unless you both really want to!); just try it - and if he starts to respond as you want him to then (maybe...) give him a light slap on the buttocks next time if he doesn't get moving quite as quickly as you want.
Good luck!
Susan
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (30 March 2008):
Really you just need to tell him that you really love it and would like it as often as possible (or however often you want). While I know some guys are not to keen on giving oral, I personally love to and really get off on making my lover feel absolutely satisfied. The other advantage of oral is that it can be given by the guy while he is recovering for a second or third round and keep his girl really turned on at the same time.
I am sure that if he knew just how much you loved it he would do it more often. If not, then maybe consider trading him in for a new model (joking)
Good luck.
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