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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. Eight months into our relationship he cheated on me and I forgave him. Shortly after that we moved in together and everything was good until 4 months ago.I found out he cheated again. He will not talk to me or tell me he is sorry for all the pain he has cause me. I need to know why he will not apologize? We are still together.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (23 November 2010):
 He doesn't feel like he needs to apologize because it's not like you're going anywhere. He's not sorry and he feels like he can do whatever he wants now. Reclaim your power and dump this loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): I agree with the other posts. Dump his ass.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Because he's not sorry. He wasn't sorry the first or the second time. I suggest you break up with him so there won't be a third time.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Well you are still together and you forgave him once and now he has done it again and you still havent left him therefore he probably feels that there is no need to apologise as you are still there. To me it says that he doesnt care about you in the slightest and he is probably feeling sorry for himself because he got caught. He doesnt care about you, respect you, love you. He doesnt even care that he has hurt your feelings.
I think you need to finish with him and stop letting him walk all over you and treat you like dirt. You should have got rid of him the first time he done it, but i guess you gave him a second chance which is fair enough but dont give him a third, as he will just keep walking all over you, you deserve better.
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