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writes: I actually was talking about this on here earlier. The thing is ive been with a guy for almost a year now. Weve had our ups and downs before. After petty breakups for no reasons, we got back together and went to our home town for a visit. We got a hotel room. We got into an arguement and i left to go get cigarettes. When i got back he mentiond a girl walking the hallways claiming to be an escort. Then after that she knocked on the door and asked if he was there. I went ahead and let her in then got my stuff and left because i was so upset. He didnt follow. The next hour after, he left long voice mails wth a lot of awkward silences and occasionally saying "at least im honest" a month of begging i took him back. I would forgive but he'd rather lie about it. Its quite obvious they did it. If he cant come clean i have no choice but to leave. I cant help but wonder what other lies he's guarding with his life. Does this mean im wasting my time and that he'll never admit it? Is there anyway to get him to? Or would it not matter because there's probably a lot more lies?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanj u for ur opinions. Im leaving him.. He hasnt showed any remorse at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI left because when i got into a small conflict with her and she said atleast hes honest. Which is excatly what he kept sayin on all 3 of the 5 min lng v.mails. Basicaly while me and her got into it he was just laying bak on the bed grinnin like it was funny so i left because i was completely fed up with him. Wasnt going to fight over a nasty jerk. Im nt sure why i gt back with him but i did. And since then he has been treating me like gold except for the fact that altho he threw his cheatig n my face, the very next day he denied it. without honesty its like he stil aint bn serious about us. I guess im just getting tired of waiting for him to do somethng im nt sure hes actualy gona do
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): Why did you leave when she showed up at the room? You staying there would surely have prevented him from getting involved with a call girl. You letting her in the room and then leaving probably could've been construed as permission for him to have sex with her.
However, I won't blame the whole situation on you. Your boyfriend is scum for cheating on you with a hooker, and if I were you, I'd immediately go get tested for STDs and then dump him. This man isn't worth your time, and yes, there are probably plenty more lies.
At least he's "honest," but he should be "honest" and "faithful," too.
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