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writes:When I was in high school, there was a girl I like. She smiles at me and gets angry whenever I talk to another girl. Even if I dont talk to another girl, she is still mean (1 week mean and ignoring me and 1-2 days give me a smile, and then mean/ignoring AGAIN). this cycle kept on and on. We are not friends, but she is the first girl who talked to me in high school.Whenever I talked to her, she either does not talk back and just say goodbye (I waited for her in front of her locker), says Im busy, give me a mean look, or says I have to go to the washroom.What do you guys/girls think? Why is she doing this? Reply to this Question
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reader, questionquestion +, writes (4 July 2012):
questionquestion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think she was making a statement, because I ignored her for 1 school year, but you do make a point. No hitting for sure. I guess I will never know why.
Nope she is not a tom-boy. I think she played too much games that girls play (playing hard to get). Her ex lady friend told me that girl is picky.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (4 July 2012):
 Well...I am not sure if hitting someone really hard on the shoulder is considered flirting or not. I am quite a bit older than you, and if I was flirting, I might touch someone, but not necessarily smack than on the shoulder. Maybe this girl is a Tom-boy. Just try to be forward and polite with the girl you like. If she likes you, she should reciprocate...but not by hitting or being mean.
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reader, questionquestion +, writes (3 July 2012):
questionquestion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionactually during graduation when I was returning my grad gown I accidentally walk-by near her and she hit me really hard with her shoulder.
you're right. i will forget her. not worth it.
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reader, questionquestion +, writes (3 July 2012):
questionquestion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks. that is helpful!
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (3 July 2012):
Please do not read too much into peoples' random actions. They could have been talking about someone else entirely. As far as backstabbing...why would you concern yourself about that? You're a guy in his 20's...go get the girl you want and stop playing games with all of them! Here's my best advice for you: if you like a girl, let her know. If she ignores you and/or is mean to you, stay away from her. If girl A likes you and sits with girl B who doesn't, then go sit on the other side of girl A and flirt with her. It gets to be a drag trying to get a girl who is mean, moody, or otherwise.
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reader, questionquestion +, writes (3 July 2012):
questionquestion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks I believe both of your answers. I actually did try your suggestions (ignore her); however, there was this girl that I like in high school (not the mean girl - Ill call her E.), she befriended that girl and sat beside her, because we were all in chemistry class during grade 12. I sitted far away from them. I know E likes me, because whenever E would walk on the hallway, we would look at each other for more than 30 seconds and sometimes, she would hang around with her friends on the hallway.
one time, I was just sitting down in class when I heard both of them shout. E talked in a loud voice - "What?! Im going to talk to him right now!" and then they both looked at me. do you think she was backstabbing me?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 July 2012):
 It sounds to me like she is just not a very nice person. She does not seem to be interested in wanting to get to know you or to become friends. I think the best thing you can do is ignore her, don't talk to her and if she is mean to you just walk away from her and be the bigger person, am sure there are plenty more girls at school who you can talk to and be friends with, it is best to avoid people like her.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (3 July 2012):
Does not sound like she is interested. If she was interested she would be warm and accomodating, not cold and mean. I would ignore her for awhile. You don't want to have to work this hard just beginning a relationship.
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