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writes: Hey guys, maybe some of you are familiar with my situation, I have posted several times before about my breakup and you've been a great help. My ex is on the rebound with another guy and I'm still in love. Here's the latest:She was singing in a show which I knew about for a few weeks, and I was planning on going. However, at the last minute, a couple of my freinds asked me if I wanted to go on a road trip with them for a couple days to New York City, so I agreed and had a killer time. Unfortunately, the New York trip coincided with her show and I had to miss it. When my ex found out that I was going and was going to miss her show she got really pissed at me. Why would she get pissed if we're not together???
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reader, shredordie +, writes (5 April 2006):
shredordie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, thanks guys, I appreciate the input. I'll keep you updated on my situation. I am trying my hardest to move on with my life, but I can't imagine ever not loving her.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (5 April 2006):
 wow, i'm really happy to see that your trying to move on a little from her, big improvment since your last posting, instead of trying to spend any time you can with her your making other plans, moving on and spending time with other friends. i agree with Aunt Audrey only apologies for not being able to make it that night but don't be saying sorry for trying to move on, she is not your gf anymore its not your responsibility to be chasing her around every time something important happens in her life, she is the one that broke it off with you she just can't expect you to always be around, now she is worried , the less time you spend chasing her the more worried she will be, like i said in your last posting, the less time you spend giving her attention and being around her the more worried she will be that your giving someone else that attention she might even start to miss you . very proud of you
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (5 April 2006):
 I think your ex finised the relationship and started another one, as you say, on the rebound.
She has been lucky to keep you as a friend, and she knows that.
I think the fact you chose to be elsewhere the night you were supposed to be watching her show tells her you are beginning to move on with your life, I think she's a little put out by that, and maybe worries that your frienship might suffer as a result of you going on to meet someone else eventually.
You can only apologise for letting her down, you need not apologise for getting on with your life! Good for you!
I hope you find happiness in the future.
Good luck.x
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reader, xXxBabymamaXxX +, writes (4 April 2006):
 Your forgeting the key ingrediant in a relationship: FRIENDSHIP, one thing I hate about break-ups are that when they last for years or months the person becomes your best friend and you lose that aswell..... shes annoyed because she thinks now that yous aren't friends thats it over, but she still wants to be friends, you've obsiviously left her hearth sweet if she still wants the 2 of you to be best freinds, and for a best friend to miss a show, its pure dissapointment!
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