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anonymous
writes:I and am my Girlfriend engaged in normal sex for one year. One day she said," I want to suck your penis. " She did it and I felt not much because she had not practice of doing this. One day I asked her to ejeculate with her mouth. She took away her mouth at the time of ejeculation. The same thing goes on many times. But as time passed, I got addicted to it. I many times ended up ejaculating but she never swollowed it. One day I accidently ejaculated in her mouth. Since that day, she never gave me any blow job. Even she don't want to talk about it. I've got so much addicted to blow job that I have started to begging her for this. I give her cunnilingus many times but she never does it for me. Is it what I am thinking that she has started hating BJ after tasting my semen or is there any else case. How can I convince her to do this the same?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (2 August 2010):
 Oh well, it's her call my friend. Some wome just don't like the mess, but some can't get enough of it. you just got to go with what she wants.
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reader, Yvon  +, writes (6 July 2010):
She's being so unfair,if you go down on her why shouldn't she do the same.i admit you wronged her by cuming in her mouth but then you two should have talked it over and you assure her it aint happening again.my guy also did that ones,i felt offended for some days but he apologised and we moved on,he promised it was not going to happen again and now i still give him the bj.so try talking it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi! I am the original poster of this question.
After reviewing some answers from other ppl and exploring same kind of problem on this forum, I realize that there is always two version of this kind of questions. The females always try to biased towards feminism and males are on the male side.
Anyhow, I want to add up some more info on this question because it would clarify my position as It seems every one is blaming me.
Have any one seen the Better Sex Video Guide "Oral Sex" tehniques. In these video they fantisize the oral sex in such a way that you started to die for it. I have same situation. I have seen these videos.
The second thing is that no body tells me if she has started giving me blowjob and she is responsible for this addiction then she must pay the price.
The third and last thing that she seems to have same addiction like me. Since we met, she never got any orgasum without oral sex. Whenever we start foreplay she asks me to go down there. For quite sometime she paid me back oral sex. But from last 6 month she is not give me back.
Now how am I dealing with this situation? Whenever she asks me for giving her oral sex, I ask her would you do after it for me and she says mmmm I got cut on my lips. mmm I got sore throat mmm I promise I will do it tomorrow.
So for some time I keep on giving her oral sex without getting it back. But now she says no I just jump out of bed and get busy in other activity.
Everyone is telling me selfish. But in fact she seems selfish in this case
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Did you really ejaculate by accident? Two things prompt my question 1) you were addicted and wanted to do it in her mouth 2) you have been getting bj repeatedly and probably had good control over when you ejaculated.
I am not accusing you but asking you to be honest. This is a very critical point in your relationship, if you are not being honest it sets a bad tone and the relationship may not survive.
Be honest with your girl. If it was your desire to do this then admit it and apologize and tell her it will not happen again.
This was not part of your question but the addiction is a bigger issue than you seem to realize. Do you think it is fair to subject her to your addiction? You are using her to satisfy an addiction that involves the use of her mouth - she does not have to satisfy your addiction. Will she have to live with a man for the rest of her life who is addicted and needs her mouth as a fix? Will she have to endure begging no matter what she wants - is it all about you?
You have to get over this or it will adversely effect all of your relationships. An addiction to sex acts that involve another person to satiate is very bad. Begging her to satisfy your addiction will push her away. You need to get therapy to cure you.
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (3 July 2010):
 She's being really unfair, because you give her oral pleasure it's not fair that you should miss out. Next time, ask her to go down on you, but when you're close to climax ask her to finish you off by hand. Cum in the mouth isn't the most pleasant thing in the world but she's being unfair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): She doesn't want you to cum in her mouth, she seems quite happy to give you bj but that is her only rule. You broke that simple rule and now she doesn't trust you. You are acting like a creep.
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