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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy that I met back in December and he is amazing. He is so sweet and such a gentleman and really calm around me. When we hang out, it's just us and we'll watch a movie and cuddle. However, I've always felt like there's a side to him that I haven't been introduced to yet. I checked out his twitter to decide if I want to follow him or not, and I saw that he's really outgoing, loves to party and drink, and is very sexual. But with me he's a downplayed version of who he is with his friends or other girls. I don't get it. Is he being sincere with me or is he just playing games or something? I'm not some horrible stuck up person, so I don't know why he's not being his whole self with me. Also, I'm 21 and he's 25 if that matters at all. Please advise me! Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (23 February 2012):
 Hey,
Only you can know if this guy is being sincere with your or not during your time together.
What I can say though is that...sometimes people portray things to their social group for acceptance or to seem like they are "normal" or "with it". And when they find themself someone that they can be themself with...they just are their true self.
I think if you feel comfortable enough...you can bring up the subject ...tell him that you want to get to know him better. Let him know that he seems like fire and water when you check him out...and you're curious as to who his authentic self is. If he is cool to chat...then great.
If not....see if he comes around and follow your intuition. Can't go wrong there.
Best of Luck
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