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writes:Hi all,My ex of one year broke up with me just over a year ago. He claimed to have stopped loving me and he treated me like dirt in the weeks leading into and after our breakup. Lately, he has been calling quite frequently (about once or twice a week), even though he has recently acquired a new girlfriend. I have asked him why he is calling me, as he keeps insisting that he wants to "ask me something," although he never actually asks me whatever he is planning to ask. He also says that he hardly sees his girlfriend and that it probably won't last. Why is he contacting me now? I spent a long time after our break up trying to get him back and this is now playing on my emotions. I just want to understand why he would be calling now, because I don't want to talk to him unless there is a possibility of a reunion. Please help.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 March 2012):
 Why ask why? What is it that everyone seems to want to know WHY someone is doing something they don't want.
Why he does it does not matter... what YOU do about it is what matters...
why would you want to be back with him? He stopped loving you (so he says) and he treated you like dirt.... why do you want him back???
He's probably stringing you along till he figures out what to do with his current gf then he will come back to you till he finds some new toy to play with and break up with you again... is that what you want?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2012): Only he knows the answer to this, but how you react is going to relate to how long he keeps it up.
If you take his calls and talk to him its giving him the green light and he will carry on. Maybe he is missing you,maybe his girlfriend doesn't do sex, could be many reasons.
Thing is, do you need him messing in your life a year later when you've got over the break-up?
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