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Why is it that I've never ended up with a boyfriend?

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Question - (26 January 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, *ysterium writes:

Hey

So I'm 22 and I'm pretty, smart; I dress well, I love doing what I do etc etc

But I haven't had a single boyfriend till now. I've had people like me...many people. But it's never been mutual. And they always turn out to be creeps or semi creeps.

All the nice guys just don't seem to be interested in me.

They will check me out but that'll be it.

Strangely if I'm walking in the street, alot of people look at me including cute guys...which is kind of nice but in my college not a lot of people give me the same reaction. Wonder why.

I agree I'm not very open and extroverted. I'm an introvert. I'm a little reserved at first but I open up after sometime too. So it's not like I'm totally unapproachable.

I get so love sick now. I see couples all around me and I feel so weird and off.

Am I doing something wrong? Why is it that I've never ended up with a boyfriend?

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A female reader, AProblemShared United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2013):

AProblemShared agony auntDiamonds are harder to reach than coal darling. From what I can tell most guys these days would rather an easier catch than something they have to work harder for. Keep your chin up and remember that things happen when you least expect it. Let love find you.

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A female reader, R1 United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2013):

R1 agony auntPeople do like you and will like you. Dating is hard, you need to put yourself in places where you meet new different people. Join clubs, try new activities. What about Internet dating, very socially acceptable these days.

I very much doubt there is anything wrong with you at all and I am sure you will meet someone just keep believing it will happen.

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