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writes:I just posted something not too long ago and well i want to add to that..( why is he being so stubborn)Though him and I are going through a huge dillemma and ive been told to run away! Well for some reason I just cant do that. Its weird to me that were still in love after all the bullsh*t that happened and now we are going to the same college? Without it really being planned, and we are basically going for the same thing, soccer...Anyways, would it be best to just not talk to him for awhile and see where that takes us? Im thinking that maybe he will call me wondering what im doing and start missing me? I mean i know he still loves me and wants me as his GF but idk why he hasnt made his "move." Ill admit I have been texting him and emailing him a lot, wishing would answer, sometimes he doesn, sometimes he doesnt.. Also at times when I feel like im bothering him and I need to stop I tell him im sorry for bothering you and ill let you go, he gets all pissy?Do you think that he wants to control me with no ?s asked? Do you think that he just cant let go and so he doesnt know what to do as well? Today we talked for a little bit, he said he had practice right after school and its usually 2 hours.. Its now 6:00pm and he hasnt called me yet, should I be worried or try to get ahold of him, texting or something? Should i ignore him if he does try and contact me? I think i should teach him a lesson... what do you think?
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (4 June 2008):
 OK, now I'm caught up here... DEFINITELY walk away from this. You guys really have that love-hate-control thing going BIG-TIME here! I'm sure that there has to be other guys on campus you could hang with... it's a target rich environment! Have at it!! ...or do you want to be controlled by this guy your entire college career?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): Wow, your quick. I just finished answering your other post. Here's a quick recap for you PeterPan.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-my-boyfriend-being-so-stubborn.html
I think he wants to control you. He sounds very possessive and a little selfish to boot. The ball is in his court, your waiting on him, your doing what he wants. What about your life, your dreams, your desires. When are you going to start living your own life instead of running after him.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (3 June 2008):
I haven't read your other post, but it seems to me that you should back off a little (well, maybe more like a lot) and leave him be. Stop calling, texting, paging -- stop all of it and let him stew for a while see if he gets back to you. "Teaching him a lesson" sounds a bit vindictive to me, but like I said, I didn't read the other post to know if that's the case or not. Actually, even if it has something to do with the previous post, I still think acting out of malice isn't a good precedence to set, don't you?
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