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writes:Well there's this guy i truely love for almost 3 years, he liked me and asked me out a week after he knew me, but i was scared and i said no to him since i just got to know him and i was just out of a relationship with my ex. He would call me up everyday and talk for hours and made me feel special, it was almost like we were dating. When i finally started liking him there was a big misunderstanding from his side and he stopped talking to me. Once everything got cleared between the two of us i found out from a friend that he was in a relationship with this girl who was his good friend. One night i tried to ask him if he was dating her and he denied so i finally confessed that i liked him. He sounded happy and asked me if i wanted to take it to the next level, i don't know what this meant but i had hope. On the other hand my friend was chatting with him and they were talking about me and he told her he was in a relationship and said nothing more than that. For two days we used to talk alot a little mushy too. After that we were good friends i stood by him when he needed someone and now we barely talk, he sms's me sometimes or we chat. But he still hasn't told me he has a girlfriend. What could be running in his mind? Does he have feelings for me ?I really love him and cant go out with anyone else ? What should i do ? Im confused......
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Awww poor ikle Miss.Anonymous =(
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Well if that wasn't just damn random!
You are in a pickle aren't you. Sorry I assumed you saw him a lot. Why don't you just talk to him. I don't know why but I keep thinking you talk to him on MSN or something like that. If you don't, just keep in touch and that.
You basically have two options. You tell him how you feel in some form, and hope for the best. Or you can keep in touch as a friend, care about him a friendly way, go out with some mates and find someone who you can spend your time with. Happily...
I know you said you can't go out with anyone else, and I know how hard it is getting over someone. If all else fails, I suggest you cut the contact. Totally. Its hard but my God it does work if you have the support from your friends...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks Gecko12 :)
But im afraid since we haven't met outside so i think he would find it strange. We used to talk in school. I can't be that mean because deep inside i do think he loves his gf but questions arise as to why he behaves this way with me. A close friend of mine told me to forget about it since she knew him and her friend was dating him long ago and didn't like him at all. And ive spoken to him once about my feeling and i did confess i was over him ...but im not :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Ermmmishh,,I don't think you should assume what he feels. I don't think you should RELY on word of mouth by a friend, or friends, but it does give you information so don't ignore it.I seriously recommend you get hold of him. Not over the phone, not over texts, internet just go round his house, or ask him to meet you somewhere before hand. Tell him how much you love him, and ask him anything else on your mind.Bottling stuff up, assuming things, getting paranoid or jealous, letting the pressure consume you isn't good ways of dealing with things. You need to talk to him.About what to say, I suggest you just start talking to him because if you truly love him the words just seem to find themselves...Keep me posted about what happens...
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