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writes:i was close friends with a guy foir 2 years. i thought we got on really well but all the time i would help him with work and saved him losing his job. hes borrowed quite a lot of money-borrows the wrong word and knows i like him. we had a bad row a month ago and have barely spoken since. i tried to break the ice last week but hes been very cocky and arrogant towards me and also enjoys flaunting his new girlfriend aswell he really doesnt care if im around or not. the amount ive done for him im so hurt hes really not bothered anymore what should i do. i tried talking already and he said he didnt want to know :(
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (8 November 2011):
Hi there. It sounds like it might be time to move on from him.
The way he's acting, it seems like he's just used you by borrowing money from you and then not paying it back. Now he's treating you shabbily, and without respect.
Whatever you do, DO NOT lend him any more money. Simply say "No".
Don't try to get his attention or talk to him. Let him speak to you first, then just say "Hi", and say nothing more. Let him talk if he wants to, but don't you begin a conversation. Just let him see you are unhappy about how he's been treating you lately.
I think really, that you need to forget about him.
It seems like he's the type he's with someone, until he meets someone else.
Who really knows what goes through his mind.
Don't bother asking him though. He's a bit restless. Easy come easy go, apparently.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2011): I dont know what the row was about but I do know your well rid of him.
He has moved on, so let him go and put him behind you. He doesnt sound much of a friend to me.
Start to look forward now and try to get over your feelings, it will take time as he treated you with disrespect, but its easier if you have no contact.
Good luck
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