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Why don't men want sweet, nice, educated and bad? What's up with this?

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Question - (1 March 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2009)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Let me ask you this... even though an age old question, why is it that men don't always like the nice, sweet, educated women (even though we too have our bad girl side... wink!). Do they perceive us as weak and not tantalizing enough or what? Aren't there any nice guys out there who also have a bad boy side though not revealed by day who want the same in a woman?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

It sound like what I like in women.

It's a bit more intimidating to flirt with this type though. I guess more of a challenge but more rewarding when you get it.

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A male reader, andrew loves hali United States +, writes (2 March 2009):

andrew loves hali agony auntthere are lots of nice guys out there but dont try to find the right one let him find you.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (1 March 2009):

DoubleM agony auntThere are plenty of nice guys, which you will find once you stop noticing only the "hot" guys.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

Most men want to settle down with girls like you. The kind of girls that you see those guys chasing after are most probably just for sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

I get the feeling that you are looking for the wrong kind of men, "aren't there any bad boys that want nice, sweet women"? You are confusing the heck out of me, so I wonder if that is why you aren't finding men who like YOU.

The best thing to do to attract the right guy to you is to be your authentic self....at all times, or he won't recognize you. Do you know who you are? Do you know what kind of guy you want? Of course guys are attracted to sweet, nice educated girls, and if all they want is a bad girl, then they are usually not looking for a girlfriend...now are they?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

What guys are you hanging out with? There certainly are nice guys out there that value the characteristics you describe! Keep looking! You'll find 'em!

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