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*francy
writes:my boyfriend and i met last weekend ,we had a great time together, despite the fact we have been dating for six months i just do not seem to build trust on him.. i do know know where the problem is am so insecure and afraid of loosing him.. what do i do to make sure he really love me?
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (5 November 2009):
 You need to address your issues of insecurity because whatever has happened to you maybe in past relationships that has caused this, you cant take it into other ones or the same pattern gets repeated.
Speak to someone about these issues, try to get help for how you feel so insecure, you cant make someone love you, that has to come from within their hearts, and i am sure if you try to address this you wont come across as so needy.
That can put a lot of people off you, because they don't understand why, that is why it is very important you address this, good luck.
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reader, FireAndIce  +, writes (5 November 2009):
Has he ever given you reason not to trust him? If not, your trust issues are based either on past experiences, insecurities or both.
It's difficult to let your guard down and trust someone and sometimes that's not a bad thing. Someone really has to earn your trust.
Perhaps you even have a gut instinct that you should not trust him.
But be careful, don't let insecurity ruin what could potentially be an amazing relationship. If you have reason not to trust him, then don't. But if it has no basis, try to work through your insecurities.
You're wondering if he loves you...that's not something any one of us can answer. If you're questioning his feelings for you, maybe THAT'S the reason you don't trust him.
Go with your gut instinct on this.
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